“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hotornot - holy sh1t i can change the title!

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Crazy Asian said:
i wasn't really doubtin' ya :D
but i can't imagine how being that good looking wouldn't get u instant poon.
i mean, its sad that not a single girl has ever said i was good looking.
i mean, if i knew that i was at least moderately attractive, that would make me feel so much better, but i guess i'm insecure mostly cause i was bullied as a kid and i was raised by my mom :(
Don't feel bad man.

Here's what I can suggest (anyone who has any positive feedback feel free to add on). You have very nice teeth (did you have braces?)!! They would look so much better whitened. Go over to Target/Wal Mart and get those Crest whitening strips. They're worth the money! Grow the hair out a little more and style it to make your face less rounded looking.

http://www.titikpilipino.com/images/artist/christian_bautista.jpg

Hit the gym bro! There's only so much you can do for your face, but there's a ****load of improvements you can make to your body! Women check our bodies out as much as we check theirs out.

You might be able to pull off a pierced ear. Not the lobe, but the top of your ear. It'll make you look more badass and less boy-ish. If you think you can pull it off, then do it! If you don't think you can, it won't do you any good (a pierced ear wouldn't fit me at all for example).

You would look good in the color red. Get a couple red T-Shirts and some shorts with some fresh white sneakers for summer. Do you tan nicely? Get a tan right before the summer. ;)

Good luck man! You seem like a good guy, and I enjoy reading your posts! I wish you the best in this game!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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ChapStick said:
Don't feel bad man.

Here's what I can suggest (anyone who has any positive feedback feel free to add on). You have very nice teeth (did you have braces?)!! They would look so much better whitened. Go over to Target/Wal Mart and get those Crest whitening strips. They're worth the money! Grow the hair out a little more and style it to make your face less rounded looking.

http://www.titikpilipino.com/images/artist/christian_bautista.jpg

Hit the gym bro! There's only so much you can do for your face, but there's a ****load of improvements you can make to your body! Women check our bodies out as much as we check theirs out.

You might be able to pull off a pierced ear. Not the lobe, but the top of your ear. It'll make you look more badass and less boy-ish. If you think you can pull it off, then do it! If you don't think you can, it won't do you any good (a pierced ear wouldn't fit me at all for example).

You would look good in the color red. Get a couple red T-Shirts and some shorts with some fresh white sneakers for summer. Do you tan nicely? Get a tan right before the summer. ;)

Good luck man! You seem like a good guy, and I enjoy reading your posts! I wish you the best in this game!
dang, thanks man.
never had braces :)

i have my hair so short cause our team just shaved it for the state swim meet. but yeah i realize that my face is really round.

if i ever got my ears pierced, my parents would probably disown me lol..

oh one more thing.
could u recommend a brand of shirts that are fitted?
Cause my waist is a small, but my shoulders and chests are a M. and it's really hard to find clothing that fits me well.

Maybe American eagle? my friend gave me a AE t shirt for my birthday and it fit pretty well. i answered my own question :)
 

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i'm finally understanding why people are annoyed by these looks threads.

because people start giving pretty metro/homosexual advice.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
dang, thanks man.
never had braces :)

i have my hair so short cause our team just shaved it for the state swim meet. but yeah i realize that my face is really round.

if i ever got my ears pierced, my parents would probably disown me lol..

oh one more thing.
could u recommend a brand of shirts that are fitted?
Cause my waist is a small, but my shoulders and chests are a M. and it's really hard to find clothing that fits me well.

Maybe American eagle? my friend gave me a AE t shirt for my birthday and it fit pretty well. i answered my own question :)
I hear ya on the ear piercing and parents disowning ya. lol

American Eagle should fit you just fine, but for your age group I'd go with Abercrombie. Although I hate AnF, Hollister, and AE (I have been around too many people in the fashion world that trash talk those labels and it rubbed off on me) they should work well for you as they are for the millions of trendy teens out there.

Fit is key to making clothes look nice. I don't care how nice your shirt is; if it doesn't fit you correctly, then it's not gonna look good. Get the slim fit T-shirts (or go to an Abercrombie store and find some that fit you nicely), some Abercrombie shorts (you will find that in many cases shorts will make you look taller, so wear them in the summer if you're short), and some nice clean sneakers (I really like K-Swiss... They're classics!). There you go!

http://www.kswiss.com/cgi-bin/kswiss/store/product_detail.html?mv_arg=x&nav=11|11&pid=0001:100&g=m#

I've been labeled gay/metrosexual for my interest in fashion. I can't help it, but it is something that I enjoy reading about and I'm not ashamed to give my input in matters of appearance. As gay as it may be, we have to realize that not only will dressing better help you with women, but it will help you in other aspects of your life. Your appearance at a job interview, how people perceive you the first time they meet you, etc... How you dress and carry yourself is quite important in my opinion.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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wutangfinancial said:
nope. except for Chap Stick.

Why else would one be on here? My tall white friends go to bars and get laid. Not rocket science.
I'm 6'2, white, dark hair and eyes and athletic. Yet I get very little ass.
It's not all about looks!!!!!!!!!!! I wish it was about being white and tall.

Looks don't help you make a move or approach.
 

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war-hero said:
Anyone on here not Asian and/or short?
I'm hispanic and short.

wutangfinancial said:
nope. except for Chap Stick.

Why else would one be on here? My tall white friends go to bars and get laid. Not rocket science.
envy is a ***** :(
 

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wutangfinancial said:
^what about short hispanic girls? Have you tried?
not really tried much of anything after High School (which was a huge disaster)

Also my problem is that I am attracted to tall, white women or women that are out of my league.

I'm only 20 though so its not like I am desperate to find something.
 

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i've never really seen myself as short.
i'm 5' 9" and i haven't grown an inch in 1.25 years :(
 

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wutangfinancial said:
^you can get cute FOB asian chicks, maybe....

I doubt a white girl would go out with you though.....The Asians who get white girls are the rare, tall athletic ones...

For guys like us, who want to get tall, attractive white women, we have to be awesome in just about every other department in order to even be considered as a potential mate. We have have a load of work ahead of us.

Frankly, I don't think I can accomplish the above. Being awesome would imply having lots of social proof, power, confidence, hot body, great face, and all the other superficial bull**** people care about ALONG with a great personality to top it all off. I don't know about you, but I don't think I can become this over night. Hell it'll probably take me YEARS to even accomplish half those things.

If crazy asian is awesome, then hell yeah he can get the white girls.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I don't know many asian girls, and most of them are ugly anyways.

I have a few attractive white girls that would love to go out with me.

But as for clothing, i still can't find wut i'm looking for.
I don't wants some cheesy brand stamped everywhere like hollister or abercrombie.

I want some clothes that fit well and give off that ragged/earthy look.
Moderately priced is always a plus.
 

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i will, but I'm busy right now.
but if i ask someone out right now, then i'd be obligated to go to prom, which i do not want to do.

and hells yes i need to step it up.
i haven't approached consistantly in so long now.
believe it or not, last semester i was actually pretty good with the ladies.

i'll keep looking around for clothes.

I know that i need to regain that frame of mind before doing some hardcore approaching again.

but how do i improve my looks other than clothes?
 

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DJDan?
where is the video?
and ok, i'll DL aim this week.
thanks :)
 

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DAMNNN dude, i just watched the video
that's a hell of a transformation.

god dam i wish i could bench.
but it'll be a good couple of years before i can start to bench heavy.
 
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