“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hmmm now that i think about it.
it was pretty gay of my to put this on here
 

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lol thx
but i'm trying to not get big for swimming.
just stronger :)
 

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I give your body a 9 and your face a 7, so HB8. J/k. Just goes to show women are just as shallow but hypocritical about it. They complain about guys always wanting "skinny stick figure chicks", yet in my experience they always respond well to a shirtless pic with a six-pack.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I put up a pic on hotornot a little while back for the hell of it.. lol

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EEKSAYB&key=TGM

I've been going to the gym and stuff on a regular basis, so I'm constantly working on my physical appearance. I know I'm skinny as hell, but I'm actually doing something about it, and it makes me feel good :)
 

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Am I the only one who enjoys giving everyone a 1
 

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ChapStick said:
I put up a pic on hotornot a little while back for the hell of it.. lol

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EEKSAYB&key=TGM

I've been going to the gym and stuff on a regular basis, so I'm constantly working on my physical appearance. I know I'm skinny as hell, but I'm actually doing something about it, and it makes me feel good :)
ya you seem like a well dressed guy who takes care of himself. Score is not a suprise. And you have no excuse to not succeed with women, you could lay like rockstars.
 

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ya you seem like a well dressed guy who takes care of himself. Score is not a suprise. And you have no excuse to not succeed with women, you could lay like rockstars.
Thanks man! :) That part about me having no excuse to not succeed with women made me think...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChapStick said:
I put up a pic on hotornot a little while back for the hell of it.. lol

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EEKSAYB&key=TGM

I've been going to the gym and stuff on a regular basis, so I'm constantly working on my physical appearance. I know I'm skinny as hell, but I'm actually doing something about it, and it makes me feel good :)
dang, ur really good looking.
i wish i was you lol.

in a non gay way:moon:
 

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ChapStick said:
I put up a pic on hotornot a little while back for the hell of it.. lol

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EEKSAYB&key=TGM

I've been going to the gym and stuff on a regular basis, so I'm constantly working on my physical appearance. I know I'm skinny as hell, but I'm actually doing something about it, and it makes me feel good :)
Holy **** dude, you look exactly like Rami Malek when he was in The war at home.
 

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Show more clevage, skin or muscle earn more rates. Look like barbie earn more pionts. Look like g i joe more pionts again.

Are the raters shallow? God yes. This isn't a reflection of anything but superficialiness.

By the way the guy with the blue shirt. Good looking, but he is here at sosuave like the rest of seeking guidance.

Success isn't skin deep. A real man is deeper.
 

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ChapStick said:
I put up a pic on hotornot a little while back for the hell of it.. lol

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EEKSAYB&key=TGM

I've been going to the gym and stuff on a regular basis, so I'm constantly working on my physical appearance. I know I'm skinny as hell, but I'm actually doing something about it, and it makes me feel good :)
You look alot like Cristiano Ronaldo!!!!

Anyways I voted a 10 for both of ya just cuz of the sosuave comradery.....the very next picture that popped up was this:

http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=SYSYSYS-KCY

She likes the big one!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i dunno who ranaldo is, but u look like that guy from the movie ringer.
 

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hmm, u say ur from Seattle, but the guy you posted says he lives in NY.
interesting....
 

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hmm, u say ur from Seattle, but the guy you posted says he lives in NY.
interesting....
I put a buncha fake info on there... I don't even know why.. I just changed it back to Seattle..
 

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By the way the guy with the blue shirt. Good looking, but he is here at sosuave like the rest of seeking guidance.

Success isn't skin deep. A real man is deeper.
I couldn't agree more. I suffer from insecurity just as much as other people (if not more).

I realize that I would prolly think I was fake too cuz of the fake NY location ****, so I just grabbed my camera and snapped a couple pics to prove it's really me lol (after seeing my pics I want to be tan again this summer). I just scratched my neck and forehead so that's why they're red lol

*picture links edited out*

I struggle getting girls to take me seriously, and I would like to improve my game. I would love to be a guy that's able to approach a girl anywhere, build attraction, get her number, and then meet up with her. I just got out of a long term relationship that ended badly, so I was out of the game for a while, and now I'd like to be back in it. I'm not gonna lie; looks and height have helped me, but not as much as most people think. The reason I'm here is because I want to improve, and believe me I have a long way to go!
 
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i wasn't really doubtin' ya :D
but i can't imagine how being that good looking wouldn't get u instant poon.
i mean, its sad that not a single girl has ever said i was good looking.
i mean, if i knew that i was at least moderately attractive, that would make me feel so much better, but i guess i'm insecure mostly cause i was bullied as a kid and i was raised by my mom :(
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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