"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hotness of gf as a measurement of confidence

r0cky

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This one will probably get some flames for being a little superficial, but being superficial is what makes us men.
I see a strong correlation in the confidence a man posses with how hot a girl he can get. This is why you see cops, firemen, CEOs, politicians, famous people, etc with the hottest girls. And I know its not money because I have seen very rich men with very low cnfidence and their gf's made me think "He can do much better than that". On the other end are firefighters, army guys, garage band musicians, and others who don't have that much wealth with beautiful girls by their arms.

Ok so we all know by now that confident men get hot babes. My point is that the more confident the man the hotter the girl. In fact, you can measure a man's confidence from 1-10 just like a girl's beauty. So if the more confident the man the hotter the girl, then a man with a confidence level 7 will attract a HB7 at most. However, this is with confidence alone, if you can fake confidence traits like those thought in the Mystery Method then you can "fake" a higher confidence and find a HB8 or better with a confidence level of 7. However, this relationship will be short lived because once you run out of material or AFCness slips out you're done for.

So from now on, measure your confidence from time to time. See whats the hottest babe you can get without any routines. My theory is that you will see yourself getting hotter girls as your game improves until you don't have to rely on any routines or rules. Your game becomes internalized, you become a "natural", and are able to pull out HB9s+ without much effort.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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r0cky

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Put it this way if you met a hb2, you will definetly have her. You need no confidence whatsoever, but for a hb5 you probably need to be less needy. For a hb6 you need some confidence, for a hb 7 you need a lot more in order to make her attracted to you. Just because you don't currently have a gf desn't mean you have 0 confidence.
But the hottest girl you can pull is a measurement of your confidence.
Right now I can pull a HB7.5 without game, just being my confident self.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SinJester

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I see one problem with your post:

Girls are people not numbers.
 

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:crackup: hahaha, so its like a video game to you, if you dont have enough mana you wont be able to cast the right spells to get the girls you want.

I personally wouldnt consider myself in the best situation if I had a super hot girl... I dont think their personality would match up enough. I like smart women and most women that I have met who seem "hot" dont seem like they know much, so there is always a struggle to find the right balance.

On a scale of 1 to 10 the girl that I'm seeing right now is like a 6 or 7, she's really cute. But since her personality is awesome, it bumps her up to about a 10 or 11.
All I'm saying is that I wouldnt want to be stuck with some dumb broad just because I love her breasts. I would get bored wayyyy too quickly.
 

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I agree with you fleshy. Just like video games, after the initial impressive thrill, the graphics, no matter how good, quickly loses its value. After sometime you almost don't notice them at all. It's all about the actual gameplay and real content from then on. If those don't satisfy you, you very quickly lose interest.
 

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He does have a point thought, although I think I am looking at it from a different perspective than most people. Guys usually wont date girls that they think are out of their league. Without saying anthing else 'confiden't guys probably have more attractive girls since they are the only ones who believe they can have them and are actually going for them.
 

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Those chicks are with the cops and army guys because of the excitement and live or die nature of the profession.

In other words they are with those guys because of their profession most of the time.

Not the guy.

You can see this in that movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" starring Richard Gere. Anyway the moment Richard's friend in the movie left the military that guy's love interest wanted nothing more to do with him because she was only in it to be a military guy's wife. Richard's friend then hung himself in his bathtub because he was a total AFC.

A rich guy that doesn't flaunt his wealth like a bad boy and wear some badass shades while cruising around in a cadillac looking for b!tches isn't going to get far because it is the image of being an untouchable playboy player type when you are wealthy that gets you the women, not just the fact that you are rich.

The cop and army guy type of professions already have a ready made image in a chick's mind that she can add to and fantasize about.

A rich man has to be creative and play the bad boy flashy player type or else all that he can hope to pick up are goldiggers if any woman.

Think about that chick who posts here named SunnyD.

She's not going to go for the boring rich guy is she?

Hell no she likes drama and non committed guys so she'd go with the badass player type of rich man.

A chick like Sunny is the closest a rich DJ can find for love in his life ie the shallow excitement seeking chick.

Rich guys however that don't play the game only end up with Anna Nicole Smith type of women. Not that she wasn't easy on the eyes at one point but we all know Anna never had any cravings for that old geezer other than what he carried in his wallet.

At least with a shallow drama seeking chick like SunnyD a rich DJ could have a chick in that kind of girl that would value him for all of the wild emotions and excitement he provides to her life rather than just his cash.

The game is more about the image a woman believes you possess than any amount of confidence or money that you have.

Project a cool badass totally untouchable non committed player type of image and you'll have hot chicks all over you for a very long time.

As the old saying goes "image is everything".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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