Hotness = Crazy????? Need your thoughts...

[Johnny Alias]

Okay... I'm rapidly approaching my wits end on this one. Are all hot women NUTS? I know this isn't true... some of my friends are married to beautiful women that have perfect hearts, souls, minds...

However... does it seem like most AVAILABLE hot women are off their rockers? Narcissists, Borderlines, Histrionics (NPD, BPD, HPD) of the Cluster B variety...

It seems the hotter a woman is the odds of her having some type of personality disorder skyrocket... the odds seemingly go up exponentially.

Where do you go to meet SANE women that are attractive? I know its not bars, clubs, or the internet. Where does one go?

Just to put things in perspective I'll review the ones I've had in my life.... all were smoking hot and at least 8's...

College Love - My first true love. Brilliant. Liked the booze a bit much. Major bulimia. Hated on men in a major way due to daddy issues. Met her at University. Currently looks TERRIBLE. Skull like face.

Crazy Love - This one I'm fairly certain was Borderline. Met her at a party. Ex model. Prone to angry nuttiness especially when drinking or doing drugs. Now twice the woman she used to be.

Fiance Love - Looked like Angelina Jolie. Adderall addict. Supreme sociopath. Every time she opened her mouth she lied. Still looks okayish... Met her at bar.

Girl Next Door Love - Runs hot... like lets do it anywhere hot. Lives off parents. Getting bigger. Met her at a bar... HPD personified. Could cry over roadkill.

Playboy Love - Yeah she was in playboy... forever ago. Now getting OLD. Still dresses like she's 23... but add on 20 more years and a gut from drinking all the time. Met her online. BPD/HPD city.

Where do you go??? Honestly I have no idea anymore. It's not bars. I'm not much of a churchgoer. Thinking friends as the only option. Also not going to try and make anyone over an 8 my wife and mother of my kids. Feel like the risk is too great at this point.

 

[Mr Wright]

Imagine everyone giving you stuff for looking good but nothing for how you felt inside as a person.

Hot girls have a lot of power but dont really know what to do with it and sometimes find it hard to express themselves as people because their value is usually solely based on how they look.

 

[DarkDetective50]

Well, these girls you dates loved drinking, doing drugs, hanging around bars and opening up their legs for every man that glanced at them. What were you expecting? Mother Theresa?

 

[Dgwizdal]

Yes - 8.0 and above have all been f*cked in the head for me. I have to admit that I played it to my advantage and most likely made their disorders worse. <8 and they were far more stable, real, and respectable. I honestly think that I would be much happier in a LTR with a decent looking broad than a smoking hot one. No matter what, you get tired of f*cking them all eventually.

 

[JoeMarron]

Yeah I'm thinking you have a better chance of finding a rainbow polka dot unicorn than a sane hot chick. I'd say the only sure way to find one is to build a broad social circle and snag one while they're young and a virgin/1 or 2 partners.

No matter what, you get tired of f*cking them all eventually.

So true. There's no reason to bust your ass trying to get an 9 as an LTR when eventually the Coolidge effect is going to kick in and her hotness will be practically meaningless to you. Plus you'll have to fight dudes off her constantly and she'll take more game to keep around. Save the hot chicks as fvck buddies/ONS and get in LTRs/wife up the cute 6. If you really click with a chick she's going to be more enjoyable in bed than the vapid hot chick anyways.

 

[denverfan110]

the quality hot chicks marry young imo.

This.

They are such good catches that they are held down by (usually) quality men. No need to let them get into their late 30s.

 

[skinnyguy]

If you're talking about the hot women you see at the clubs who are wearing close to nothing with 5 inch heels, then yes, they are all nuts. They've been fvcked in at least 3000 different positions with as many guys. When a girl knows she is hot, it is essentially over because then she starts wh0ring all over instagram and all that shyt. Don't go for those slvts.

 

[Atom Smasher]

My formula:

Quality of character is inversely proportional to good looks.

 

[skinnyguy]

My formula:

Quality of character is inversely proportional to good looks.

Is that why people always tell me I'm a great guy? Lol. Good post Atom.

 

[Johnny Alias]

Thanks for the comments...

What kills me in this is that we have such a longer shelf life than they do. The looks start taking a HARD hit at 35 for them and its a steady diet of botox and surgery from then on out if they want to stave off mediocrity. They think the ride lasts forever... but then its over and they are SCRAMBLING for men.

Men are fine into our 60's... in fact we often grow more attractive in their eyes due to daddy issues etc. As long as we work out, refine our character, and increase our wealth base then we outshine them... especially the older ones that people are beginning to look at in the bars with pity.

I'm thinking a 7 might be best... with some bolt ons. I want a kid. I do. I want one kid with a sane woman who wont rip my character apart in front of the kid after we break up. I'm not even wanting a lifelong commitment! Just a gal who would be a good mom.

On another note I'm going to be banging a chick that looks like Wonder Woman tonight... for real. Is she sane? F*** NO!!!!! Hahaha.

Thanks for all the candid no BS comments you guys give on here. I'm SO much better off than I was a month ago. Big shout out to 5String, Mauser, PairPlus, Bible_Belt, and PeakIV.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Okay... I'm rapidly approaching my wits end on this one. Are all hot women NUTS? I know this isn't true... some of my friends are married to beautiful women that have perfect hearts, souls, minds...

However... does it seem like most AVAILABLE hot women are off their rockers? Narcissists, Borderlines, Histrionics (NPD, BPD, HPD) of the Cluster B variety...

If she is hot and not taken, there has got to be a reason.

 

[VladPatton]

They sure as hell are, at least most of em. Think of it on a scale like this:

https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/...ifWsL5gsOQAQwKfGylAM55iEY-DdSbeaA7BT17wwjyqmA


The hotter, the crazier, where the diagonal line is the 50/50 mark.

 

[VladPatton]

Moved.

 

[VikingKing]

My formula:

Quality of character is inversely proportional to good looks.

You mean just for women, right?

 

[VikingKing]

They sure as hell are, at least most of em. Think of it on a scale like this:

https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/...ifWsL5gsOQAQwKfGylAM55iEY-DdSbeaA7BT17wwjyqmA


The hotter, the crazier, where the diagonal line is the 50/50 mark.

Women who are not hot can be just as crazy.

 

[VladPatton]

Women who are not hot can be just as crazy.

That is very true. However, all this is just a warning to look beyond the beautiful face and realize there is a crazy monster living in that skull beneath that sexy, long hair she just spent $200 on lol.

 

[Atom Smasher]

You mean just for women, right?

Yes. There might be some application here for men, but it is less pronounced and less prevalent, as far as I can tell.

For women, it's solid, universal formula, although as with any formula there exists a tiny percentage of exceptions.

 

[dutchmaster]

WTF are u guys talking about? Just because a girl is hot she's crazy? No way.

You must think anyone who exhibits any sort of exciting personality to be boring.. Theres still normal people out there. A rareity and harder to come by day by day but they do exist. But normal girls are boring.. No one here wants a normal girl. You'd be bored of her before u even bang her

 

[Johnny Alias]

Lol. Believe me Dutch each of the girls I mention up there was FUN. Exciting, sexy, and HOT.

They were also ALL batsh1t crazy. Like it or not some of us on here are looking for something long term. These are the kind of gals that bankrupt you, cheat on you, and, oh how exciting, land your ass in jail!

They're not stable. They typically are self-absorbed to the point where they will emotionally or physically abuse you after the honeymoon phase is over or you are not obeying their every command like a little b****.

Don't start the talk of being an alpha male and how that will get their crap in line. You're VERY young and obviously haven't run into many of these. I'm talking about ANIMALS that cannot be reasoned or bargained with... I hope you don't run into any EVER, but, when you do... remember to look up Cluster B's. Might save your life.

 

[orbion2013]

Lol. Believe me Dutch each of the girls I mention up there was FUN. Exciting, sexy, and HOT.

They were also ALL batsh1t crazy. Like it or not some of us on here are looking for something long term. These are the kind of gals that bankrupt you, cheat on you, and, oh how exciting, land your ass in jail!

They're not stable. They typically are self-absorbed to the point where they will emotionally or physically abuse you after the honeymoon phase is over or you are not obeying their every command like a little b****.

Don't start the talk of being an alpha male and how that will get their crap in line. You're VERY young and obviously haven't run into many of these. I'm talking about ANIMALS that cannot be reasoned or bargained with... I hope you don't run into any EVER, but, when you do... remember to look up Cluster B's. Might save your life.

i have to so agree with this.... after the honey moon period is over, they can turn your f@cking world upside down