"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Darth

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Hi guys, Well I checked into this little privately hotel tonight and this beautiful brunette answers the door (I had a reservation) and goes inside my room to show me the room.

She was talking, telling me about the breakfast in bed and the keys and etc. but in the middle of what she was saying she quickly got outside of the door frame because the sexual tension was palpable and obvious even though that was probably the last thing on her mind and certainly the last thing on mine when I knocked on the door (I am wiped out). But then she said that she was going to do some "other things" but before she left she was smiling at me- not fake friendly, but the other kind of smile.

I don't know what to do! I don't know what I could do. She is probably married or something...

Just blowing off steam I guess.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Darth

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Ran into her in the lobby- she was smiling at me in an unmistakably sexy way. But then she goes, "Can I help you with anything?" All formal and stuff.

Then I say, "I'm looking for the door to get out- I don't know where the door is." Then she laughs and says, "Believe me, you're not alone. You're not the only one who didn't know."

Am I overanalyzing this out of boredom? Probably. I wonder what happens next morning when she brings me breakfast in bed.
 

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bro. you're staying at a hotel. go for it? cost vs benefit analysis is in your favor.

if she rejects you, just go to sleep. if not, you get to bang her, then go to sleep. seems like a good situation to me
 

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I think I blew it by texting her on my gmail instead of calling. At my computer, too lazy to pick up the phone. I never even brought anything up besides a wake-up call but I could feel the interest lowering because I was a little over-eager.

Stupid texting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Masculinity

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I would have pulled direct game on her and invite her out for a drink. After building rapport and telling her you find her attractive, your probability of getting laid (assuming there was attraction on her part) would have increased.
Plus the alcohol would have probably disinhibited her b!tch shield. Go for it next time and text with your real number; girls give out their numbers, dude...are you scared of the big bad broad or something? :D
 
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