Simple and short .. this you must see, a real piece of art ( Hotel Emirates Palace ).
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You mean you couldnt stay there. Just look at that sh*t.Skel said:Thats hot! I probaly couldnt afford to stay ;P
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hello! The position i was going to apply for was vice president of operations! Not bell hop duhh!picard said:I wouldn't work at that hotel. It pays wages in rupees. If you work out the exchange rate, the final wage will be less than peanuts. That's why the only workers there are east indians or pakistani.
I can't trust Arab gov't because it ruled by the clergy. Arab culture is governed by out of dated primitive religion. Every aspects of their lives is run by the koran. I doubt that tourist can go swiming in their bathing suit. It would be plasphemy against islam. It the same crap issued by the Iman clergy. Women have to be veiled. What kind of resort can a tourist enjoyed when women have to be veiled to go swiminng?Joe The Homophobe said:Not all arab countries are bad.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I dont believe we're meant to dicuss politics/religion, but just to let you know - your full of $hit.picard said:I can't trust Arab gov't because it ruled by the clergy. Arab culture is governed by out of dated primitive religion. Every aspects of their lives is run by the koran. I doubt that tourist can go swiming in their bathing suit. It would be plasphemy against islam. It the same crap issued by the Iman clergy. Women have to be veiled. What kind of resort can a tourist enjoyed when women have to be veiled to go swiminng?
I never paid much attention to arab countries or its religion until 9/11. Now I despise its islam religion. I lost a relative in pentagon attack. For example, the recent christan Afghan man was threaten to be killed because their Koran dictated it. Everyone else who doesn't believe in Koran is apostate. The Tabilan is alive & well in Pakistan and other places. They destroyed the ancient statue of Budda for same reason. we shouldn't be mislead by the slick hotel ads. The hotel lies in Arab territory hence it falls under Arab koran laws.