Hot to Cold

[Lost1]

First of all sorry I know people hate posts like these! Because it contributes nothing to the site really. So Sorry!

First of all ok went on 8 dates with this girl, soo she had lots of interest in me. The girl has a ton of friends but they are all doods, and it seems like they're always around, screams out attention wh0re! But anyway I hungout with the girl on wednesday she basically was all over me and want told me she liked me many times prior to the night, and even told me I had nothing to worrie about. So anyway wednesday night the girl goes "you have nothing to worrie about, but would you ever be friends with me if we didnt work out?" I was really confused, I said absolutely not. Then later she started kissing me and I thought I really did have nothing to worrie about. So the next day comes, I texted her..no response, usually not like her, then I called her about 6 hours later no answer?? Then i got a text later that night about 12 she said "hi kyle" and I was confused because i didnt say anything even remotely even close to that response. So I just go to bed and then I go to work friday and when i get out I called her. No answer, soo her friend calls my friend later on to hangout that night. I knew something was up and i really was thinking of not taggin along because she didnt ask me, but her friend asked if i was comming. I should not have went!!!!!! GAHH But yeah I went and I got a speach she said the worst 4 words known to man. "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS" So i sit there for a sec and ask her if htere is someone else, and she says no. But anyway I get up she walks out and then I walk out and go to my friend ayy lets go, then I leave and that was that basically it. She called me today sunday to tell me something happened about a car was vandlized. But that was it basically. Anyway ways I dunno how she could go from hot to cold soo fast when I left on a good note wednesday I left with a kiss, so??? Soo could someone please lemme know what you think!


Thanks in advance!

 

[Lost1]

TTT...common just alil help please!

 

[WC2]

Been there.. let me start things off with telling you that you're going to go through a lot of heartbreak with the following things I say to you;

You probably will never be romantically involved with her again. It's a 1 in 10 possibility.

Attention *****s know how to manipulate guys cause they hang around so many of them. The only way to tame one is to not give her attention all the time. When a girl asks you if it's alright just to be friends, it's not a question, it's a STATEMENT. She is saying "I want to be friends," and simply just putting it to you in question form because she doesn't want to tell you straight up. Next time a girl asks you this, the right thing to do is just go along with it and act like it's not a big deal. Infact, tell her you were thinking the same thing. That will really blow her mind.

But you don't even need to get to that point if you play your cards right. Sometimes you have to give her an inch and take it back. Meaning, you can be nice to her if she inturn is nice to you. Once the equation is out of balance and you are giving more than she is, then she knows she has control of you and wants to move onto the next guy in hopes of finding one who can tame her. While she may not be able to admit this herself in words, or even knows it, confident women are always in search for the male who can tame them.

From here, you must take this girl out of your mind. You can only fake not liking her for so long before she finds out, so it's important that you actually STOP liking her. If she comes back, don't let her in. If she comes back once, she'll do it again. From there, it's up to you. Nevertheless, if you choose to go back, it's important to avoid serious conversation and keep things purley sexual. But don't get your hopes up; she's not likely to come back to someone she's already tamed.

Best of luck