"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hot "Thin" Girl I fvcked 5+ years ago now like over 200 lbs

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I can't believe how QUICK they fall. I mean a mere YEAR and a half ago (I believe that's the last time I saw her at her work, happily in IT -- been there many years) she was still hot, though aging (barely), but I heard she lost her job (or got laid off) and went to work for a flooring company (like hardwood floor showroom person or something...a step down in career). She lived with her mom as well, but I'd fvcked her in her 4-plex apartment way back when she was 26 or 27. NOW...she's a Monster guys, UNrecognizable. It is so fvcking sad. I mean I didn't love her but our fvcking was fvcking awesome I remember. She could kiss well and fvck well and laugh and had a lot of fun. I'm thinking she may have just had a child or something to have gotten so big. I can't get over it. She was quiet and shy except when she was around me (but I kinda rejected her even though she was hot! I acted like I was with someone else (and I was spinning, of course) and she knew that she could never have me outright). She probably wonders why I didn't fawn all over her like I know many guys did/would/should undoubtedly.

I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole now. It's so disgusting man. I can't get over it. HOW?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I wonder the same. When a woman loses her looks she loses EVERYTHING. A woman is useless after she ages or gets fat. Well, nowadays at least. In first world western nations, I see that 99% of women suck. But you guys seem to say that eastern women are much better. But yeah when women get older, they aren't as pretty and their metabolism slows down. This is mostly because their 'youth' hormones drop (estrogen, HGH, etc.), not to mention that most PEOPLE do not exercise either. This lack of exercise is one of the biggest reasons for change, as exercise helps keeps these 'youthful' hormones higher.

But yeah like I said before though, women nowadays are pretty much useless after they get old or fat. That's why I made that thread not long ago asking about the usefulness of
women. There practically are none. Sex is pretty much it. And only before they get old and crazy.
 

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I wonder the same. When a woman loses her looks she loses EVERYTHING. A woman is useless after she ages or gets fat. Well, nowadays at least. In first world western nations, I see that 99% of women suck. But you guys seem to say that eastern women are much better. But yeah when women get older, they aren't as pretty and their metabolism slows down. This is mostly because their 'youth' hormones drop (estrogen, HGH, etc.), not to mention that most PEOPLE do not exercise either. This lack of exercise is one of the biggest reasons for change, as exercise helps keeps these 'youthful' hormones higher.

But yeah like I said before though, women nowadays are pretty much useless after they get old or fat. That's why I made that thread not long ago asking about the usefulness of
women. There practically are none. Sex is pretty much it. And only before they get old and crazy.
I imagine I'd have to dig pretty deep to find that sweet pvssy I used to know and suckle. It's gone now. She must have sat on the couch for a whole year and eat and do nothing else, probably lost her second job too, and does nothing now.
 

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The one major thing that can effect a woman's constitution is bearing children. One is usually fine, but after two or three, their bodies and homones are all over the place. There studies that prove women bearing children suffer more physically in later life.

The story of the girl in the OP? Desdinova's quip was probably closer to the truth than he intended. She's depressed about how crappy her life is, so is comfort eating. Simple.

Otherwise, I don't always agree that 'The Wall' is necessarily inevitable, or at least has to be quite so devastating as is observed.

People in general (not just women), have very poor lifestyles and diets, which contribute massively, if not predominantly, to SMV especially as the years plod on. A woman can look attractive at 40 or even well in to her fifties if she looks after herself. Trouble is, many are married for 20-30 years by that point and gave up looking good as soon as the first sprog popped out.

Maybe this will be one positive outcome of the neo-fem revolution of independence; older single women will be forced to look after themselves for longer.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was at a business conference this week and noticed on the agenda that a women I hooked up with 2 years ago at the same conference was on the program.... I was looking forward to seeing her again and when I saw her she had ballooned up.... the difference? She was wearing an engagement ring.

It's amazing how an engagement ring immediately adds weight to a women, and when the wedding ring goes up she puts on even MORE weight.

We have to do something about women putting on rings on the middle fingers of their right hands... it's just not healthy for them.
 

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I remember she was one of those rare artsy girls who liked watching comedians on TV and even GOING to a comedy show. She'd laugh at me quite a bit, and I don't consider myself all that particularly funny, but women do tend to laugh at/with me a bit.
 

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This person I know was telling me about a friends daughter was getting bigger and bigger, hitting the gym and losing no weight, exhausted from not seeing results went to the doctor and was diagnosed with a thyroid problem. She gained a massive amount in months, and after treatment still can't lose any weight.
I don't quit understand the science behind this thyroid diagnosis. If you consume less calories than you burn it's impossible to gain weight.
 

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Here is a professional speaking on the topic:

Yes soneone may have some health issues. But it still didnt explain how a bad thyroid causes you to gain weight. I'm certain if a patient took control of their diet and consumed just a little less than they burned they would lose weight regardless of thyroid (unless they were retaining massive amounts of water).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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As mentioned eating disorders (anorexia or getting fat) are almost always due to some sort of depression. Everything else is more than likely just excuses.
 

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As mentioned eating disorders (anorexia or getting fat) are almost always due to some sort of depression. Everything else is more than likely just excuses.
Yeah, she was always a "mixed up" girl, Shy and pretty submissive. She'd get freaky, and was Bi. All her boyfriends were (college) young and immature and she didn't respect men really, even at 27 years old. You know, one of those girls who are "You can't be all That 'tough' or 'masculine,'" the kind that just really believes men are "equal" or lesser even than women (liek a veil of fantasy covering their eyes), never took me seriously. She didn't believe or see that I was naturally superior to her. She was a Very unnatural woman (not very "womanly," though all the physical attributes to be very valuable if she'd have lost the neutral-sex orientation she WAS in essence, mind, speech, and behavior -- many women (from the city) are like this today in our "the sexes are equal" world...so unattractive), mentally.

Here is the girl I'm writing about: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....tting-laid-tonight.176328/page-7#post-1753816
 

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send this bish to jenny craig
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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