Hot Take: Sex is overrated

[CornbreadFed]

The only people that value the physical part of sex are people that don’t get much of it. Now hear me out! The process of conquering a woman, escalating her out of her clothes, and seeing her submit to your cvck via ******* or sex is priceless. After her mouth is wrapped around my junk or I have did a few pumps I am like okay I’m bored & tired lol.

 

[SW15]

Sex isn't overrated. Men deal with a lot of obstacles to get sex. Sex is the reason why men do a lot of things that men do. It can't be overrated based on that.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Sex isn't overrated. Men deal with a lot of obstacles to get sex. Sex is the reason why men do a lot of things that men do. It can't be overrated based on that.

Once you realize you can get sex, it loses its luster.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Sex is overrated because it has the power to corrupt you and your character especially if you’re doing it with the wrong women.


What should be right way to view sex is with self discipline, self restraint- transmutation, and doing it with a quality woman you actually love, respect and desire.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

The only people that value the physical part of sex are people that don’t get much of it. Now hear me out! The process of conquering a woman, escalating her out of her clothes, and seeing her submit to your cvck via ******* or sex is priceless. After her mouth is wrapped around my junk or I have did a few pumps I am like okay I’m bored & tired lol.

Yes sex is abundant, very good. Now ask yourself what you really want in a partner beyond sex and go for that. The process is arduous but enriching.

 

[Chow Mein]

If you have a deeper connection with your partner, sex is one of the best human experiences.

 

[GoodMan32]

Sex is overrated because it has the power to corrupt you and your character especially if you’re doing it with the wrong women.


What should be right way to view sex is with self discipline, self restraint- transmutation, and doing it with a quality woman you actually love, respect and desire.

Yeah. When I was in college, I did some pretty pathetic stuff in an attempt to get laid.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I view sex as a mutual activity that both partners do to connect and have fun, much like hiking, watching a movie, or going on a trip. I think both men and women are drawn to sex partly because of its taboo nature; there's something thrilling about conquering social boundaries and being able to discuss those experiences.

I think if you are in a long term relationship, it is easy to fall into a routine that can become boring, especially if both partners stop seeking new experiences, maintaining a sense of mystery, or stop proving themselves towards each other. Stress can also bring the mood down quite bad. That’s why sex with new partners can be exciting; it offers a fresh experience.

Personally, I love sex. I am fit so it’s a nice physical activity for me; I also get to explore my creativity and have fun. If I find someone who shares similar physical and mental attributes, it’s even better.

 

[BPH]

I don't know why you guys post sometimes...

 

[Hamurabimbi]

fvcking is amazing. Sorry you don’t enjoy it.

 

[Gamisch]

The only people that value the physical part of sex are people that don’t get much of it. Now hear me out! The process of conquering a woman, escalating her out of her clothes, and seeing her submit to your cvck via ******* or sex is priceless. After her mouth is wrapped around my junk or I have did a few pumps I am like okay I’m bored & tired lol.

I get what you're saying. To some extent you are right, but let's not forget it's still within the hierarchy of Maslow. So it's just as primal as the need to eat

Other then that, to most people the mental story behind sex is more important than the deed itself. The conquest, the build up ect is sometimes more exciting than the deed itself.

That's why even though we have legal prostitution iam not a great fan of it. You don't get to touch/kiss the woman and even if you can the latter doesn't feel that great knowing she does this to 10 men a day.( do have to say after a certain amount of money this will change) Yet, prostitution is "the oldest job" and it's not hard to see that every woman knows to some extent that her vG is worth x amount of money to men.

Complex subject as the male and female drive for sex is different as we learn over and over again, yet women want babies and be mothers ect. Lotta angels to look from.

But yeah, everything you get in abundance becomes stale...even "that one " woman.

 

[user252009]

every single girl I've fvcked after a few months the lust for ****ing her has diminished greatly; how do I maintain that for a long period of time if I want a LTR?

 

[Doctor Doom]

I agree. It’s actually more fun knowing you can get it and not wanting it.

 

[corrector]

With my ex-wife, I would have to say, that I felt too much pressure to perform and had to take herbal pills ot get it up and know she felt disappointed because of that. I was 38 years old at the time. For something that is supposed to be in some Maslows hiarachy of needs, it's has been one that was often met with performance anxiety, worried about unplanned pregnancy, and a feeling of dread of an ED moment that ruins everything (which it kind of did). Also, I could not bang her too hard otherwise she'll say "quiet or more slowly". Other circumtances within that marriage just made it a toxic relationship anyway, like we married to just divorce each other. Since this time, I would say that it's over-rated in principle.

 

[Mike32ct]

It’s been so long that I barely miss it.

 

[BPH]

I can't believe that we're at the point where we, SoSuave.net, a literal pickup forum, are having a serious conversation about the very thing that we came here to learn how to get is being labeled "overrated"...

Are we Twitter now?

 

[GoodMan32]

With my ex-wife, I would have to say, that I felt too much pressure to perform and had to take herbal pills ot get it up and know she felt disappointed because of that. I was 38 years old at the time. For something that is supposed to be in some Maslows hiarachy of needs, it's has been one that was often met with performance anxiety, worried about unplanned pregnancy, and a feeling of dread of an ED moment that ruins everything (which it kind of did). Also, I could not bang her too hard otherwise she'll say "quiet or more slowly". Other circumtances within that marriage just made it a toxic relationship anyway, like we married to just divorce each other. Since this time, I would say that it's over-rated in principle.

You know my solution to unplanned pregnancy

I don't recall if you ever mentioned your ex-wife's age at the time. Was she significantly younger than you (asking because that would explain her disappointment about the boner pills)?

 

[GoodMan32]

I can't believe that we're at the point where we, SoSuave.net, a literal pickup forum, are having a serious conversation about the very thing that we came here to learn how to get is being labeled "overrated"...

Are we Twitter now?

The general consensus of some on this thread appears to be: The chase is better than the prize.

SoSuave is about the prize, no doubt...but SoSuave also places a lot of emphasis on the chase

 

[corrector]

You know my solution to unplanned pregnancy

I don't recall if you ever mentioned your ex-wife's age at the time. Was she significantly younger than you (asking because that would explain her disappointment about the boner pills)?

I would have to check her driver's license, or information on file, in the basement to get her age at the time. But yes, she was younger than I was. Likely in her early 30s at the time (while I was 38). I wouldn't say she was significantly younger (ie not an age-gap relationship territory), and she had a child with another man who was still in her life (ie joint custody of the child), where she had stretch marks on her belly, so you know it was not a young lady in that way. Are you saying older women wouldn't be surprized about boner pills? Do you pop pills before seeing free women/escort women?

 

[GoodMan32]

I would have to check her driver's license, or information on file, in the basement to get her age at the time. But yes, she was younger than I was. Likely in her early 30s at the time (while I was 38). I wouldn't say she was significantly younger (ie not an age-gap relationship territory), and she had a child with another man who was still in her life (ie joint custody of the child), where she had stretch marks on her belly, so you know it was not a young lady in that way. Are you saying older women wouldn't be surprized about boner pills? Do you pop pills before seeing free women/escort women?

Older broads are less likely to be surprised (or turned off) by boner pills (simply because it's more likely an older broad has been with a man who needs boner pills)

I've never taken a boner pill.