"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hot sister.

navyseal2101

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So this girl has a really hot sister, but shes just as hot, infact they look very similar. Is it ok or good to jokingly make a remark to the sister with the girl im gaming around or is that a no. I thought mabye it would make her try harder, but it could be a turn off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mpimpin

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I'd say a turnoff considering its the sister and they might be close
 

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I hate my sister, but when people say she's going to be pretty it pisses me off. I'd assume it's the same thing.
 

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hmmm

i'd have to say, HEL YEAH MAN!! do u no how much jealousy triggers
attraction??? i say go for it man!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alright, thats going to be a no. Does it work with other women though if they arnt family, I think I remmember hearing or reading that.
 

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Nah, I wouldn't even do that even if they weren't family - If you are trying to use ****y humor, you aren't doing it properly.
Avoid problems. I mean, I would only jokingly remark something like that if I was close with the girl, otherwise she might take offense to it.
 

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Alright, thanks for the help then. GL to you guys.
 

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I'd do it, but if it doesn't fit with your personality/persona then you won't be able to pull it off. It'll only work if you're sarcastic, laconic, and generally just don't give a fvck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Snow Plowman

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wtf

Seriously what is the difference between two sisters and two strangers?

THIS HAS TO DO WITH EMOTIONS NOT LOGIC

Back when I was in school I was gaming two sisters and it worked out great. We'd do group hugs, (They were more than comfortable hugging each other) we'd walk arm in arm, one day I'd talk to one and tease the other like I don't want her anymore and next day I'd switch it off.

You guys keep thinking of teasing as a tactic or technique, it's something people naturally do. Just because you have a target you can't tease the other girls? It makes me wonder how guys would approach a set where there is a mother and a daugther.

With that said doing stuff like that can only help him why?
- Social proof
- Jealousy plotline (If he chooses too)
- No ****blocking

Have fun, don't limit yourself with tactics, and rules which are really guidelines. Whether you tease the sister or not it doesn't really matter. If you do joke around with her too though it could only help you. Why? because if you already have attraction with the current sister, your already social proofed, now when you start teasing the other one sexual tension is being built there too. Emotions, Emotions, Emotions. Whoever you choose there not going to ****block because there cool with you.
 

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You can tease and play with them and game both of them, but if this is just a random thing to throw out there I wouldn't recommend it especially if you are into the one girl and see it going somewhere.

I've dated a set of twins at the same time. I teased them and did my usual thing, but women are crazy they will remember if you say something about their sister or negatively compare them to their sister. That **** can come back to haunt you.
 

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It all depends on their personality and it will only work in your favour if the one you're talking about likes you quite a bit. The best thing you could do is to just avoid it for now I think.
 
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