"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hot radical masochistic feminist

Luveno

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Funny story.

Went out this weekend on a "date" with a girl that I met last year. Circumstances prevented me from making a move last year.

Recently I get an email from her asking if I'd be in my current town, for she is visiting for a while. I replied that I would be.

So, we met and went out for a few drinks.

Her story: somewhat of a radical feminist who despises gender roles and our current male-dominated society. She would get quite irate when I would retort her views with mine, which are that gender roles are a reflection of natural differences between sexes. Nonetheless, attraction cares not about ideological differences....


Anyway, later that night, I learn that this radical, "respect me as a woman" feminist likes it rough. Very very rough. For instance:

1. calling her down to the lowest and dirtiest of society.

2. throttling her neck/choking her

3. slapping her as hard as I could, in the face

4. pulling her hair with reckless abandon.

So, we did that for a few days, and then flew back to her home city.


Has anyone else here encountered such a dichotomous woman in the past?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MaddXMan

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I have not encountered that but your story is hot.

I just called my gf and told her I'm coming over tonight, you've given me some ideas....
 

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Luveno said:
1. calling her down to the lowest and dirtiest of society.

2. throttling her neck/choking her

3. slapping her as hard as I could, in the face

4. pulling her hair with reckless abandon.

So, we did that for a few days, and then flew back to her home city.


Has anyone else here encountered such a dichotomous woman in the past?
I guess yoiu showed her who wears the pants.

Dude, be very careful here. Even though that stuff was done with her consent ,you many be on the edge of behavior that she MAY call you on legally if she get her panties in a twist .
 

3countriesPlan

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I met a semi lesbian feminist once who hated the man and hated men in general. Then I convinced her to come along with me and some friends to a kegger and she got ****faced. She finally started making some sense when she got drunk. Instead of being bitter about the plight of women she basically announced she wanted to have her face fvcked. LOL, such a cute little feminist.

I think feminists like to get done rough and dominated because in daily life they are always trying to dominate others or at least stop others from dominating them. Therefore they need to get slammed every once in awhile to maintain a healthy balance.
 

realsmoothie

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Luveno said:
Funny story.

Went out this weekend on a "date" with a girl that I met last year. Circumstances prevented me from making a move last year.

Recently I get an email from her asking if I'd be in my current town, for she is visiting for a while. I replied that I would be.

So, we met and went out for a few drinks.

Her story: somewhat of a radical feminist who despises gender roles and our current male-dominated society. She would get quite irate when I would retort her views with mine, which are that gender roles are a reflection of natural differences between sexes. Nonetheless, attraction cares not about ideological differences....


Anyway, later that night, I learn that this radical, "respect me as a woman" feminist likes it rough. Very very rough. For instance:

1. calling her down to the lowest and dirtiest of society.

2. throttling her neck/choking her

3. slapping her as hard as I could, in the face

4. pulling her hair with reckless abandon.

So, we did that for a few days, and then flew back to her home city.


Has anyone else here encountered such a dichotomous woman in the past?
My experience with most of the kind of girls that would be called "radical feminists" on this board is that they are pretty wild and open about their sexuality. We're not talking about 19 year old freshman women's studies majors, though, we're talking about mid-20's girls who have had some time to balance out what they've been taught or have read with who they are.

you gotta remember, a lot of what girls hear about feminism is from school where things are drilled into your head to try and compensate from the myriad social forces AGAINST feminism you find in the world around you. It takes a while to adjust and figure out what works for you.

How many apple-pie making, church-going, girly-girls are really that good in the sack?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Later she delivered a public lecture entitled "All Men Are Rapists" and gave her audience a gripping account of her own personal experiences.
 
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