Hot People Are Celebrities

[ALnotAI]

I've known this for a long time, but being hot is a lot like being a celebrity. It has it's upsides and it has it's downsides.

Positives:
-beautiful women want to sleep with you
-you're treated preferentially pretty much everywhere you go, especially if you are dealing with women
-you are constantly being praised and flattered because of your appearance


Negatives
-people are often begging for a photo
-men are hostile to good looking men since they are such a strong sexual threat
-women who are insecure become hostile or overly anxious

I am reminded of these benefits and inconveniences every week.

This past week I was working with a contractor which had a lot of female employees. These women were constantly hitting on me, many asking for photos, they stopped working to come chat with me which interrupted my work as well. It just became a circus especially since I couldn't avoid them.

Men and women are simply not designed to work together outside of the family unit. This is especially true when very good looking people are around.

But the point is, once you get to this elite level, you have access to scarce resources and a higher quality of life that other people can only dream about. However, you have to pay the price in stress, constant and excessive attention and many people who won't personal boundaries, along with people who feel threatened and react in a hostile manner.

There is a lot of stress involved when you are hot. It is not insignificant. It is a real thing. But I'm going to do my best to try to minimize them. I am not going to accept all of these negatives lying down anymore.

So, next time you hit on the that very hot chick, if she turns you down, it's not personal. She will probably try to be polite and diplomatic, but then again, if she's dealt with too many clowns dog whistling from their cars, or if she's dealt with one too many guys who are ridiculously, overly persistent, she just might bite back. Not because you're a terrible dude, but because the stress and frustration has built up within too short of a period of time to allow it to defuse on it's own naturally.

Likewise, if I have to deal with too many undesirable women or gay guys hitting on me, I just might snap and go off. I really, really try to avoid this, but it can get to be too much.

But yeah, I think I need stricter boundaries with women who are just flat-out harassing me and totally disregard personal boundaries.

 

[sosousage]

i am not ugly, but not handsome, theres a way to fix certain things that can affect ur appearance

(face fat, body physique, haircut, face hair, eyebrows, clothes etc) theres only one thing u cant change (unless u go for surgery -bleh) which is face bones

 

[R.U.G.]

For the OP:

 

[zekko]

Troll

 

[jaymbrs]

Man your life sounds terrible.

 

[IKO69]

Tell us more about what didn't happen

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Two maxims come to mind...

1. To whom much is given, much is required...

2. Great beauty is a blessing and a curse...

Handle yourself with grace. Be kind. Hold out for what you really value and politely disregard the rest. Conduct yourself with class. Something about you invites all this attention. You need it, you crave it...but you don't like that you cannot turn it off.

Ah but you can turn it off. To do so you must cease needing all this attention. Much of it will then fall away & the rest will be manageable. But to do this requires facing your own narcissism. Can you do that?

That's the key.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Tell me about it. It gets really old. Supermodels stopping me on the street. Begging to give me hummers. Sometimes I just want to chill and drink my coffee. But as soon as the cute barista hands it to me, she drops to her knees and starts sucking like crazy.

Men are even worse. They stop me on the street and just give me money. They think that just being around me is going to cause of my irresistible sexual magnetism to rub off on them or something. So they hand me stacks of cash in hopes I'll engage them in conversation.

Sometimes I just wish I would be expected to pay rent like everybody else. But my landlady keeps sending over her high school daughters to ensure me that I don't need to pay a nickel, and to cook and clean for me, etc.

I tell ya, it sucks to be super gorgeous, and a sex and money magnet.

I have feelings too, you know!

 

[MrJack]

But as soon as the cute barista hands it to me, she drops to her knees and starts sucking like crazy.

Men are even worse. They stop me on the street and just give me money.

Hahahahahaha. Oh god that’s funny

 

[Soflobro#3]

I wish this was true

 

[zekko]

Sometimes I just want to chill and drink my coffee. But as soon as the cute barista hands it to me, she drops to her knees and starts sucking like crazy.

I'm obviously getting my coffee at the wrong place.

 

[corrector]

I've known this for a long time, but being hot is a lot like being a celebrity. It has it's upsides and it has it's downsides.

Positives:
-beautiful women want to sleep with you
-you're treated preferentially pretty much everywhere you go, especially if you are dealing with women
-you are constantly being praised and flattered because of your appearance


Negatives
-people are often begging for a photo
-men are hostile to good looking men since they are such a strong sexual threat
-women who are insecure become hostile or overly anxious

I am reminded of these benefits and inconveniences every week.

This past week I was working with a contractor which had a lot of female employees. These women were constantly hitting on me, many asking for photos, they stopped working to come chat with me which interrupted my work as well. It just became a circus especially since I couldn't avoid them.

Men and women are simply not designed to work together outside of the family unit. This is especially true when very good looking people are around.

But the point is, once you get to this elite level, you have access to scarce resources and a higher quality of life that other people can only dream about. However, you have to pay the price in stress, constant and excessive attention and many people who won't personal boundaries, along with people who feel threatened and react in a hostile manner.

There is a lot of stress involved when you are hot. It is not insignificant. It is a real thing. But I'm going to do my best to try to minimize them. I am not going to accept all of these negatives lying down anymore.

So, next time you hit on the that very hot chick, if she turns you down, it's not personal. She will probably try to be polite and diplomatic, but then again, if she's dealt with too many clowns dog whistling from their cars, or if she's dealt with one too many guys who are ridiculously, overly persistent, she just might bite back. Not because you're a terrible dude, but because the stress and frustration has built up within too short of a period of time to allow it to defuse on it's own naturally.

Likewise, if I have to deal with too many undesirable women or gay guys hitting on me, I just might snap and go off. I really, really try to avoid this, but it can get to be too much.

But yeah, I think I need stricter boundaries with women who are just flat-out harassing me and totally disregard personal boundaries.

Cry me a river (roll eyes).

 

[nismo-4]

Cry me a river (roll eyes).

Let's end this piss poor pathetic pity party.

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