“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Crazy Asian

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Well i'm fvcked in the looks department, so i guess that means i better start making alotta money if i want chicks then....

but seriously, i don't think i've ever even seen a girl on that site being rated so low.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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speakeasy

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I'm not gay or nuthing, but I think you're a better lookin' guy than a 3.6 if it makes ya feel any better.
 

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girls that i'd never touch in a million years are rated 5's and stuff.
from wut i can tell, 7+ is considered socially acceptable.
anyone know a plastic surgeon?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hot or not is bull. And I notice race plays a big factor. Sometimes some ugly ass bleach blond get rated an 8, and a pretty cute black chic gets rated a 5. I've seen that before a million times.
 

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I agree your not a 3.6 to me you look above average since you look like you take care of yourself and you have a clean face...you remind me of a guy that would be in MMA , but this is the kicker and you shouldnt care what people say about your looks...

"I'm composed. I'm a violinist. I swim competitively. I constantly seek improvement and can't stand not being the best in anything. I'm down to earth and easy going."

PS: Cool shirt
 

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FWIW, I'm also Asian and got a similar rating last time I used Hot Or Not. Girls I know in real life (the majority being white girls) often rate me somewhere between "cute" and "hot".
 

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Wow that's pretty funny 9.1 ....

What's even funnier is that I just went through 6 pictures of girls and ALL of them were rated .....9.9.......lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who cares about that load of bollocks.... FWIW i just gave you a 10 :up:
 

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Mate you are ugly, you look like a Chinese, but who cares, looks don't matter!
 

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Taviii said:
Mate you are ugly, you look like a Chinese, but who cares, looks don't matter!
He is Chinese. Notice his username? He looks like a regular guy with an ugly shirt and no hairstyle.

Ce prosti spui.
 

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hey man, you could improve that score up to a 7 with a bit of fashion and camera work.

You are not a 3.8 but that photo is a 3.8.

Maybe grow some hair, better posture, and some cool cloths and you're set.

Hit the gym for a year and you can add another point.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you look fine dude, don't listen to the others. i think theres a certain line between 1-10 that girls will accept if you have game or personify that you content with yourself. i think if your a 5-6 and are confident, dress well and groom well you can get fine chicks. but your def above a 5-6. might want to pluck your eyebrows though.
 

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Dude, really dont take that site seriously. When i look through it, i usually give every girl a 1 just so i can see the next one lol. I have never put my pic up on it, but you look like a normal dude.

i cant take that site seriously.
 

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where are your balls at? Do you really need the acceptance of some retarded site such as "hotornot" to make you feel better about yourself? Come on now...dont have such low self esteem.

ps. I can confidently tell you that you are no where near being a bad looking/fugly guy.
 

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hahaha! dude you look good! The shaved hair suits you!

Anyway, screw hot or not looks are in the eye of the beholder, personally i think you're a 7 or higher. (I'm not gay either) Also I'm not saying this to make you feel better or anything, cause i find your posts to be really annoying and cynical at times. Sometimes i want to punch you. Actually now that i know what you look like it might be easier!

But hey, you look A LOT better then what i thought you'd look like.

p.s fvk hot or not anyway, why would you even give a crap about that. It's all about ability.
 

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<4 seems too low in my opinion, not that HotOrNot is even remotely useful to begin with.

One tip I would give though is buy a trimmer and debush those eyebrows a bit.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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