“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hot man summer (equivalent of "hot girl summer" ) is around the corner..

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I’ve found that as a guy, the male equivalent to a hot chick is a guy who is “slim thick.” He’s slim in the right places (hips, stomach), and thick in the right places (arms, chest, shoulders, calves, etc). This is because it’s the hardest body to accomplish. Any man who’s capable of accomplishing the most difficult things are evolutionarily rewarded because he’s a dominant man.

Another word for slim thick is “ripped”. You’re buff but have low body fat at the same time. This is twice as harder than just being buff or skinny and cut.

When you reach this level in physique, any chick below a 6 will disqualify themselves by believing you’re too out of their league and hot chicks will actually try to seduce you. Not saying they will hit on you overtly. But they will try to get your attention somehow.

You can be 5’6 or 6’1, I’ve never seen a ripped guy not attract female attention. I’ve seen buff guys and skinny and cut guys ignored though. If you are just buff or skinny and cut, you will need to be tall or have a handsome face on top of it or alot of game to have women seducing you.

But if you want to just show up and get a bunch of indicators of interest regardless of your height, race, or face, then you need to achieve the most difficult body.

A perfect example would be Tyler Durden from fight club.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I like your post, but lets cut this...degrading of men looking to level up fashion wise. By that i mean , why dont you post a picture of something inspiring and set an example. I dont say my pictures are that great,but this ghey shyte is just polluting the thread.

My fashion sense doesn't go further than the Caribbean tank top and some shorts. We know now that men and fashion are a slippery slope. As you can tell by some responses, men dont feel comfortable talking about fashion. Yet Chad and Tyrone will dress in such a way that Stacey knows within 3 seconds she "could do him".

Its crazy this topic isnt a priority for men, because its a vital part of seduction. Cmon gentlemen. Post some pictures that inspire your fellow DJ.

Edit: i just searched for "Vans men fasion" and this came up. View attachment 10042
Alright- how about something like this? My regular go to is like the Vans guy you posted. When I dress up a little more, it would be a fitted shirt and leather shoes.
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I thought I was off tiktok for today, but y'all really googling dudes in clothes you want to wear...

Just kidding, sort of
 

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Whenever I hear "hot girl summer" I instantly cringe

its just another one of them empty social media trends people love to say because it sounds cool and current

its SO try hard and any chick I catch referencing it I will bust her balls
 

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I thought I was off tiktok for today, but y'all really googling dudes in clothes you want to wear...

Just kidding, sort of
Exactly, felt cringe looking for photos. Just rock your own style whatever it is. If you try to do something you are not, it will show in how you carry yourself.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Whenever I hear "hot girl summer" I instantly cringe

its just another one of them empty social media trends people love to say because it sounds cool and current

its SO try hard and any chick I catch referencing it I will bust her balls
When I hear that phrase, I think of my niece that just turned 21. Posting photos of herself dressed up and getting drunk with her friends. They are not out there conquering the world, just pounding alcohol and maybe a few frat boys.
 

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Exactly, felt cringe looking for photos. Just rock your own style whatever it is. If you try to do something you are not, it will show in how you carry yourself.
Why is focus on fashion more cringe than the focus on fitness? Its just a way to improve your chances with women, and on top of that fashion is severely underrated.

Some things about dating will be framed as cringe by other men. Lets say you know a man , lets say a colleague only from superficial male -male interactions . Once you see him interact with a woman it might feel cringe. He might be a completely different person suddenly.

I can come up with more examples. But what i am trying to say is its common for men to have this "crabs in the bucket " mentality when it's about women. Another example is men don't like to talk about sexual experiences with each other.

While most men stand on a hypothetical island, women at least try to elevate each other and share tips tricks and experiences.
 
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Whenever I hear "hot girl summer" I instantly cringe

its just another one of them empty social media trends people love to say because it sounds cool and current

its SO try hard and any chick I catch referencing it I will bust her balls
No woman will use the term hot girls summer. If you explain it they might understand it to some degree. They'll know exactly whats up.

But the thread is just a funny way to turn the tables around; dump your mediocre women , get those tickets for those dope parties and reconnect with her when the letter R is back in the month( September).
 

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Why is tocus on fashion more cringe than the focus on fitness? Its just a way to improve your chances with women, and on top of that fashion is severely underrated.

Some things about dating will be framed as cringe by other men. Lets say you know a man , lets say a colleague only from superficial male -male interactions . Once you see him interacting with a woman it might feel cringe. He might be a completely different person suddenly.

I can come up with more examples. But what i am trying to say is its common for men to have this "crabs in the bucket " mentality when it's about women. Another example is men don't like to talk about sexual experiences with each other.

While most men stand on a hypothetical island, women at least try to elevate each other and share tips tricks and experiences.
I hear you. Women put in a lot of effort to look good through fashion choices. Men could do the same thing too. I’m just not accustomed to suggesting to buddies how they could dress. I’ll complement a buddy if his game is on point but I never say, “hey bro, that outfit would look better with a tapered leg rather than boot cut.” Not trying to diss your post, maybe just a blindspot that we guys could probably help each other more in this regard.

Women are better at complimenting each other with fashion and makeup because that is their collective focus. To me it is rather around the hobbies I’m interested in. Women rarely approach a guy, even when dressed up. I wear whatever makes me feel good and comfortable. Like that second picture I posted.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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I hear you. Women put in a lot of effort to look good through fashion choices. Men could do the same thing too. I’m just not accustomed to suggesting to buddies how they could dress. I’ll complement a buddy if his game is on point but I never say, “hey bro, that outfit would look better with a tapered leg rather than boot cut.” Not trying to diss your post, maybe just a blindspot that we guys could probably help each other more in this regard.
Women are so far ahead of us it aint even funny anymore. Women are so caught up in style that a average female McDonalds employee might mingle with "people from a higher hierarchy " simply due her personality and style. She might "look like Kim Kardashian " and reap some Kim like benefits (on a lower level but still, think of free entry here, free drinks there, exclusive afterparties, tons of orbiters). Basically (hot) women will act ,live and dress like they are celebrities ,thus intimidating the average " white tee blue jeans " type of man every time.

Every "natural " I've ever known was heavily involved in fashion. They were the first to copy "cringe" feeling styles, think Kriss Kross's style back then. Or the beginning of the baggy pants era.

The thread might be cringe, but I've already got plenty of inspiration from it.


I believe men can have the same effect on the opposite sex IF they put in the work. We should be completing fellow men when they put in the work, and even be inspired and elevate each other. Again, even two obese women will evate each other with sincere compliments.
 

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They only reacted when he said multi-millionaire.

Dude is big and strong, clearly fit but he’s on the chunky side. He has that midsection guys on too much HGH get. There is a type of woman that likes that, but it’s not a large swath. If he’d laid off the HGH he’d have the leaner cut midsection that women love. I guess whatever works.
 
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