Hot-headed Women

[anonymous12345]

I have a tendency to become attracted to women with temperament, sometimes the HB happen to be. They have a lot of opinions, fiery, and their sh1t tests are strong.

What is the best way to game them? I would say to be more manly: calm, inert, stable, robust, and not be moved by their turbulence.

I find this hard, I sometimes become clowny or mirror their energy. Only with girls I'm attracted to. Any ideas for how to stop doing that? Seems I crack to relieve the tension. Some would say my frame implodes, but that's another way of stating the symptom, not the solution.

 

[logicallefty]

Your scenario is tough, especially in the initial gaming stage. It can take a lot of experience and discipline not to "mirror their energy" as you say. My strategy with women like this is to do a lot of listening and responding with "oh ok". When they try to pull you directly in, like for example say "Real men buy women drinks".. My response may be "Oh really? Sorry I didn't get that memo".. If they try to do their classic shyt test and talk about an ex or another dude to get you jealous, I have responded "Sounds like a really cool guy. I should talk to him about being my wing man some night". Good topic.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I tend to pick fiery ones as well. They tend to be good fun in the sack. In my mind the reward is that I’m not a ***** and put them in their “place”, normally sexually. “you’re the one man that brings it to the table in all aspects”, sure they’ve said it before most likely but **** it, they end up orbiting me even after I kick them to the curb.

I hold my frame 90% of the time, it’s the ones that hit the switches (you know you’ve had a few of these) that I have frame issues with- still get what I want for a while, but losing frame is usually the mistake.

All that to say “I hear ya brother.”

 

[EyeBRollin]

Hot headed is low interest. Women that really dig you are too afraid to lose you. They don’t act out like this.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Maybe a better description is a woman who is mischievous, but just about every woman **** tests at every stage of the relationship. It’s how you handle the **** tests that sets you apart.

Hot headed is low interest. Women that really dig you are too afraid to lose you. They don’t act out like this.

 

[zinc4]

I have a tendency to become attracted to women with temperament, sometimes the HB happen to be. They have a lot of opinions, fiery, and their sh1t tests are strong.

What is the best way to game them? I would say to be more manly: calm, inert, stable, robust, and not be moved by their turbulence.

I find this hard, I sometimes become clowny or mirror their energy. Only with girls I'm attracted to. Any ideas for how to stop doing that? Seems I crack to relieve the tension. Some would say my frame implodes, but that's another way of stating the symptom, not the solution.

Masculine behavior in any woman is unattractive imo.

 

[kavi]

I love women like that they are fun to play back to and show your dominance. These women are tough but if you can beat them at their game they do appreciate cos you will be above guys who cant do that.

What they want is for you to beat them down hard one way or another when they come with that. It can be any kind of response but it has to have effect, opinions you debate with strong emotions and passions, **** tests you ignore as usual with ****ests, the fire you dominate with cold, biting comebacks

 

[anonymous12345]

I tend to pick fiery ones as well. They tend to be good fun in the sack.

All that to say “I hear ya brother.”

and @zinc4 writes:

Masculine behavior in any woman is unattractive imo.

We're onto something.

This girl has a deep voice, attitude, and horny as hell. Her first Tinder photo is her masturbating (saddling something, red cheeks, closed eyes). Have never seen that before, she probably came up with that by her self. I'm not on OLD anymore though.

How do we explain these three traits? High T.

(But this girl as well as another that I've landed, are smashingly looking, absolutely feminine, t1ts and a$$ like Monica Belucci.)

T-girls are horny as hell, so landing them is of interest. I think we can rephrase the problem: it's to some degree about how you would deal with a man.