"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Hot Girls Who Are Single

Juan_Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2001
Messages
1,103
Reaction score
28
Explain.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Corona

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2008
Messages
115
Reaction score
7
Most likely: Playing the field - she can be highly sexualized/masculine ("slutty"), and she can just fool around with different guys for sexual gratification or for free dinners/gifts. She knows she has power over men, just due to her physical appearance. As a girl remarked to me today "I can get a man to do just about anything for me"

Less likely: Simply enjoying her freedom (God bless America). She just doesn't want to be tied down with a boyfriend. Can be related to high sexuality.

Even less likely: Emotional problems - Depression, anti-social personality, severe trust issues, severe self-esteem issues.

This tendency may be a good or bad thing, depending on if you're trying to hook up with her or if you're trying to handcuff her into becoming your GF. Also, blame chump males for giving her such a sense of entitlement as an attractive woman.
 

jamescr73

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2002
Messages
422
Reaction score
2
most girls around here need boyfriends. Their friends have boyfriends and they feel lower on the totem pole without them. they swing from tree to tree. most single hot girls around here are totally fu*ked in the head. ran into a couple of them tonight at a club. the girl approached me at the bar and bumped into me. I made a comment about her crowding me at the bar and she needed to back off. She asked for a drink not only for herself, but also for her friend. I denied her and told her girls buy me drinks. had a 2 minute flirty convo, then she turned to 2 chumps which were 3 points or more uglier than me, that bought them drinks. they didnt say another word to me. I saw the chumps 10 minutes later alone. I love this game.
 

BMX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2004
Messages
1,477
Reaction score
408
Location
Everett
She's looking to con men into buying her free drinks..your response: "BARTENDER, get me a (insert fav beverage) and get this b!tch a water." She's more than likely LOOSE.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top