"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hot girls suck in bed

Wolfgang D

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Sounds like "sour grapes" to me. Also sounds like something people think must be true because it is faux-logical: "They don't have to make an effort because they look good, so therefore they must be bad in bed! By contrast, the ugly girls I can get must be better in bed."

It is amplified by how much people want it to be true.

I won't say how many girls I have slept with, but I can definitely say there is no relation between looks and how much of an effort a girl makes in bed, or what positions and other things she is willing to do. It has a lot more to do with courage, intelligence and sexual desire. The last one seems to vary a lot more among women than among men.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zarky said:
OP, in the swinger community they're called "Barbies." They're lazy, simple as that. It's not that they're less experienced, they may have been tossed around like a rag doll by dozens of dudes. It's just that they've never had to put forth any effort because they're so hot that the guys will do all the work.
Word... this also applies OUTSIDE of sex - UNLESS you aren't the pursuer, act like a jackass, don't give in, or show much interest... ever. But they're too selfish, egotistical, and hard-headed to do anything that requires effort for too long, and mostly try to lure you into doing everything. There's a lot of attempts to gain the upper-hand.

Those are my experiences with hotties, anyway... stuck up, lazy, and spoiled all around. Really not worth the time AT ALL - especially once you reach the point in your life where you stop caring what other people think; if you're good enough; how your peers view you; seeking approval from yourself or others; etc. Barbies are trophies to show off and feed your ego with... they have nothing of value to provide, and aren't worth competing against, or going out of your way for, IMO.

And to the dude who said this isn't porn: a lot of hotties in porn don't do ****, either! Most just sit there while the guy f's the s out of 'em.
 

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I agree with the thread title. It might depend upon what you want out of a girl. I can't even keep it up when a girl doesn't make any noise. And even then, sometimes they just get on my nerves. The last HB9 I fvcked sounded like a little kid throwing a tantrum when she had an orgasm.
 
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