"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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joe45

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well yea i been reading ur guys posts and i thank u. i have been approaching girls-the thing is what kind of girl-if i just wanted any girl it'll be so easy-just get the nerdy, obese and unattractive girl-the types i'm no sexually attracted to.
i like the trendy clothes, does their hair, wears make up-the type of girls that just looks good and femine and sexy-no mens clothes and tomboys.
these hot girls also look for hot guys-which i think i can attain- started wearing gel in my hair , dressing nicer and name brand clothes and trying to look good.
most unattractive girls from what i think stcik with thier own and hot girl stick with their own.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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we are not robots. Nothing is absolute. Attraction is based on 100000 variables which you can not begin to calculate.

An ugly guy can land a hot girl in the right circumstances, with the right game.
 

Mr. Unique

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you're 7 years older than me and you think thats how the world works. listen joe, Im gonna do you a favor. On the right hand corner of youre screen, you will see this link where it takes you to the Dj bible. what I want you to do is click on it, go on, and read everything.

your welcome
 

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Joe,
Good for you on wanting to improve your style, but keep in mind thats not all of the game.

But it will help!;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hot girls date all kinds of men...
the REALLY hot ones are most intimidating and therefore the guys you see with them are just the only ones that had the balls to approach them. Basically, after you have done the best you can with your appearance, forget all about it and start focusing on your game.
 

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Originally posted by joe45
well yea i been reading ur guys posts and i thank u. i have been approaching girls-the thing is what kind of girl-if i just wanted any girl it'll be so easy-just get the nerdy, obese and unattractive girl-the types i'm no sexually attracted to.
i like the trendy clothes, does their hair, wears make up-the type of girls that just looks good and femine and sexy-no mens clothes and tomboys.
these hot girls also look for hot guys-which i think i can attain- started wearing gel in my hair , dressing nicer and name brand clothes and trying to look good.
most unattractive girls from what i think stcik with thier own and hot girl stick with their own.

Just keep on doing what your doing..
 

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i read somewhere, ( was it in the bible? ) that you shouldnt get girls that are out of your league.

in here the opinions diverge, some Master DJ's say that you can get all the girls you want, just have to have the right mindset, the right approach, the right clothes, others say you should stick to the average looking woman so who wins?
 

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Originally posted by NeedToImprove
i read somewhere, ( was it in the bible? ) that you shouldnt get girls that are out of your league.

in here the opinions diverge, some Master DJ's say that you can get all the girls you want, just have to have the right mindset, the right approach, the right clothes, others say you should stick to the average looking woman so who wins?
I don't know where you read that but it is complete nonsense. The fact of the matter is, if you are willing to approach girls and "pursue" them (for lack of a better word), you might as well go straight for the hot ones. You don't need any baby steps to get there either. I just think it is counterproductive to waste your time with 5's when you could be going after what you REALLY want. In fact, I'm not even sure I feel right doing that, since I don't like using people.... but that's just me. Whoever wrote that was probably suggesting that you get a gf to fulfill your need to be loved and at the same time make yourself more attractive to hotter women who see you with that girl. That's the last resort really, lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pimpfromdayone

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Yeah, plus the fact that being a hot guy doesn't really have the same power as being a hot girl does. A hot guy still has to do most of the approaching and stuff (the intimidation factor plays in here as well). A hot girl is attractive to men no matter what, but a hot guy can be a complete turn-off to them if he has negative body language, has no personality, etc. And now that I have wasted another 30 sec of my life, I will just say that confidence is still the number one factor in your success with girls.
 

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The way I see it is this:

If you want an extraordinary girl (aka hot, smart, fun, etc.) you got to be an extraordinary guy.


When you see a hot girl with a guy (that's not related to her), he's usually attractive or rich or confident or athletic or funny or a combination of traits that set him apart from other guys.

There's that qualifying question that pua's ask targets, "What sets you apart from the other girls?"

Just ask that question to yourself if you're not sure why an extraordinary girl would want to be with you.


BobbyJ
 

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I don't know but I couldn't live with the thought of my girl having so many guys after her.I stick to ****ing the hot ones & dating them..but I don't wanna marry one.
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I don't know but I couldn't live with the thought of my girl having so many guys after her.I stick to ****ing the hot ones & dating them..but I don't wanna marry one.
If you play your game right, none of the other guys will have a chance with her. The second you start worrying about the other guys, she'll know she has all the power, and you will pay for it. Well, it just comes with the territory though doesn't it?
 

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
Hot girls date all kinds of men...
the REALLY hot ones are most intimidating and therefore the guys you see with them are just the only ones that had the balls to approach them. Basically, after you have done the best you can with your appearance, forget all about it and start focusing on your game.

I really like that advice. I focus too much on my own looks. I have nice expensive clothes and I take steroids so my body is pretty tight. But then when I go up to a girl I expect her to fall all over me cause I look good. Some do, but MOST need alot more than just a good-looking guy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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