"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FALCONDAWG79

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Okay this girl that is on the dance team is in my last period class. I have weight training the period before this class so i am all sweaty and tired. I use deodorant of course, i just have my hair all sweaty and messed up and im usually too tired to even be energetic at all. Anyways, she is across the room to the side and looks at me a lot but when i notice her doing this of course she looks away, and i do too. She is really hot and i saw her doing these sexy dance moves at the pep rally and all i have to say is "DAMN!". I do not ever talk to her but i have a feeling she's interested. What should i do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ4Real

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Just be confident and talk to her. She's signaling you by looking at you. Just start a good and brief conversation with her. Be sure that you are the one who ends the convo.:cool:
 

skumface

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dude heres my golden advice for you
: NEVER DATE A CHICK IN YOUR CLASS

Once you go into that zone there is no getting out of it. Remember you will see her for the remainder of the semester. If things go sour between you 2 then youll still have to put up with it, if things go well then good luck to you however since im asuming your a DJ then you go by the standards of 'lose a ho, gain a ho'.
Its your call man but im warning you not to make a mistake a mistake i made.
 

DJ4Real

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You can date a girl in your class. Just maintain space between you and her.
 

Evangenlion

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the nerves have got you. just talk to her with simple chit chat.
first you want to make sure she is interested in you. don't just jump to conclusion. if the chit chat lasts long (15-30 min) and u both have a laugh, then its a very good sign and you can work on her from then.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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