"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hot Girl Becomes Upset w/ Compliments!!!

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Sayajin_Prince

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This girl is a sure 8/8.5 but unlike other hot girls this one seems to be very insecure and upset when a boy tries to compliment her or when someone is looking at her, she becomes very serious, never smiles and sometimes she acts agressive and her eye contact says it all " stop complimenting me, and stop looking at me", but she teases us to compliment her, its very odd... i confronted her one of this days, and told her my compliments never meant to hurt her but that she could think whatever she wanted and that i don't apologize to a girl for thinking she is hot, it's in my blood. She became silent and changed the convo topic.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bombshell

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Not giving compliments to hot girls is one of the first things i learned when i looked at any Dj. Go read the bible, currently you are a chump.
 
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If anything, i'd ignore her. Or tell her she's not your type

I remember a friend of mine and I were at a party. She has a bf, and this guy that was there has a gf. Anyways, i dont know how it was brought up, but he said that my friend wasnt his type, and she got so mad at him and demanded to know what it was that he didnt find attractive in her. Granted, shes really pretty and nice. Anyways, the point is, when you dont compliment and give in to her, then you still have power. Make her want you.
 
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remember the #1 rule of compliments

give only sincere compliments when you truly mean it, and sparingly.

giving them compliments they've heard in the past will only make them think lowly of you, espectially at a time when theyre insecure.
 
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Why would you compliment a girl? DOES A GIRL EVER COMPLIMENT YOU?!

Am pretty AFC but its pretty logical to not compliment a girl like saying shes hot or something lame like that. I would really feel low if i tell some girl shes pretty because i put her higher then me and i know am not gonna get nothing back from it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Learn to use the backhanded compliment. A compliment with a tease/small insult thrown in.

Something like "Your hair looks really nice... a lot better than yesterday" or "you've got a great body... do you do wrestling or something?" I know, crap examples, but I hope you see what I mean.
 
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