"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hot girl, afraid of blowing my chances

pressure0354

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Situation: Theres this HB 9.5 girl who is good friends with one of my friends. Shes the type that guys would give themselves up for in a second. Dark haired, totally hot. Plenty of guy friends. A girl who I would think was way out of my league if I have not fund this site. Anyway, I have had the oppurtunity to party with her a few times. In the beginning, I made a point not to give her much attention (I didnt even get her diggys) because I figured shes got so many guy friends that I should differentiate myself, but now since we have some rapport, we talk and tease each other. even just like play fighting and stuff. Last night I partied with her again and she said that I dont have game, which threw me off a bit, but i thought it was funny becuase everytime I would go up to another group of girls, she would be at my side after 5 minutes. Plus the previous night I had a girl in my bed. I pretty much have fun with this girl everytime though. However, I only see her when I am drinking and what not, or through our one mutual friend.

I was just thinkin of hookin up with her one time when we eventually party again. But I am now starting to wonder what would happen if I get her number, and just ask her on date (potentially making me just another guy wanting her). I think I have good leverage, but am almost afraid of blowing it. I only got her screen name from awhile back, I never talk to her and sometimes just block her to remain mysterious.



Any suggestions? Try it and if not next her ass? I am just rookie here, but this site has definitly helped. Thanks fellaz.

I know your thinkin Afraid is not in a Don Juans vocab, but like I said, I am still learning haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don Juanabbe

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Does she have alot of girl friends, or just guy friends?

She's an HB 9.5 you say? Game her friends first.

Bust her like crazy. Neghits, teasing, you need to hammer her.
 

pressure0354

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maybe your right

shes got lots of friends in general, i rarely see guys make progress on her. but when am i supposed to just stop playing games and go for it>?
 

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I didnt read your post, but ive read your thread topic and the reason I have done this is because...
1. Who cares if she is Hot or Not
2. You treat hot girls like any other girl
3. What makes her so hot that you must say she is hot? To you she is hot but maybe to others she isnt, if you treat her like this goddess, you wont get her, if you treat her like another girl, you might.
 

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"Bewarith the girl that hath many guy friends, for thy shalt f\/ck with many a dudes to masterbate thy ego." -Jesus Christ

Just watch out and guard your heart man, this girl sounds like my last oneitis.....wicked hot, many guy friends, always partying, telling you things to keep control over you (You have no game), you shoulda immediatly let her know you won't put up with that. Fire back with something like :"why cus i'm not drooling over you?" Then just keep pushing the issue until she is forced to fully explain her BS statement and she's uncovered as a just being a B****......just cus she's hot doesn't mean she ain't cold
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Luveno

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I read the title of your post and that was all I needed!

Afraid???? Of a girl rejecting you???? Come on. Real men have more important things to be afraid of, like being a lump of complete stagnation.

Get your head in gear!
 

Don_Joffe

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Luveno , hey, dont copy me hehe! we think alike.
 
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