"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hot girl, afraid of blowing my chances

pressure0354

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Situation: Theres this HB 9.5 girl who is good friends with one of my friends. Shes the type that guys would give themselves up for in a second. Dark haired, totally hot. Plenty of guy friends. A girl who I would think was way out of my league if I have not fund this site. Anyway, I have had the oppurtunity to party with her a few times. In the beginning, I made a point not to give her much attention (I didnt even get her diggys) because I figured shes got so many guy friends that I should differentiate myself, but now since we have some rapport, we talk and tease each other. even just like play fighting and stuff. Last night I partied with her again and she said that I dont have game, which threw me off a bit, but i thought it was funny becuase everytime I would go up to another group of girls, she would be at my side after 5 minutes. Plus the previous night I had a girl in my bed. I pretty much have fun with this girl everytime though. However, I only see her when I am drinking and what not, or through our one mutual friend.

I was just thinkin of hookin up with her one time when we eventually party again. But I am now starting to wonder what would happen if I get her number, and just ask her on date (potentially making me just another guy wanting her). I think I have good leverage, but am almost afraid of blowing it. I only got her screen name from awhile back, I never talk to her and sometimes just block her to remain mysterious.



Any suggestions? Try it and if not next her ass? I am just rookie here, but this site has definitly helped. Thanks fellaz.

I know your thinkin Afraid is not in a Don Juans vocab, but like I said, I am still learning haha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don Juanabbe

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Does she have alot of girl friends, or just guy friends?

She's an HB 9.5 you say? Game her friends first.

Bust her like crazy. Neghits, teasing, you need to hammer her.
 

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maybe your right

shes got lots of friends in general, i rarely see guys make progress on her. but when am i supposed to just stop playing games and go for it>?
 

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I didnt read your post, but ive read your thread topic and the reason I have done this is because...
1. Who cares if she is Hot or Not
2. You treat hot girls like any other girl
3. What makes her so hot that you must say she is hot? To you she is hot but maybe to others she isnt, if you treat her like this goddess, you wont get her, if you treat her like another girl, you might.
 

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"Bewarith the girl that hath many guy friends, for thy shalt f\/ck with many a dudes to masterbate thy ego." -Jesus Christ

Just watch out and guard your heart man, this girl sounds like my last oneitis.....wicked hot, many guy friends, always partying, telling you things to keep control over you (You have no game), you shoulda immediatly let her know you won't put up with that. Fire back with something like :"why cus i'm not drooling over you?" Then just keep pushing the issue until she is forced to fully explain her BS statement and she's uncovered as a just being a B****......just cus she's hot doesn't mean she ain't cold
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I read the title of your post and that was all I needed!

Afraid???? Of a girl rejecting you???? Come on. Real men have more important things to be afraid of, like being a lump of complete stagnation.

Get your head in gear!
 

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Luveno , hey, dont copy me hehe! we think alike.
 
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