"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GaryUranga

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how effective is it to just make friends with hot girls? I see it like an investment in the future, you can "give up" on a few hot chicks (just saying give up cause youre aiming to be just friends with them) then collecting the benefits on it :p

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Zaraza

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Hey man, haha saw ur post. :-D

The way i look at it is, we meet people through people. SO if ur friends are hot, im assuming their friends are hot, therefore you end up meeting good looking people.
 

Michael Chief

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theory of knowledge said:
be friendly, but don't feel like you own anything to any of them
what? im assuming you mean "owe" and not "own."
and if you make friends by owing something to them, i don't think you're making the right kind of friends lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Espi said:
NEVER discard a woman from your life.
Wrong, discard those ones that are not of any benefit to you (ie, they are crack wh0res, have personal problems, stalk you, or have no hot friends) ;)

Yeah, strive to collect numbers, flirt with all of these girls and ones bound to go hey! He's cool.:woo:
 
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