“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hot @ first glance. once she talks, it's a turn off. howd u react?

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Im not sure how the majority of you react when you come across a sexy lady, and once u approaced her and she started talking. her rating instantly dropped.

There is this girl i initially rated HB8 by first appearance alone....however today when i approached her and the instant she opened her mouth, her rating dropped to a 5/6.

Sometimes i wish i hadnt approached her so at least that sexy image of her couldve remained in my mind.
i think however i would still be interested in dating her.

anyone with similar reactions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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curious, but what was it about the way she talked that dropped her rating down to a five/six? i'm guessing her breath probably reeked like ****. haha, out of all the eights and above i've approached, i've never had an experience where their ratings dropped due to the way they talked or what not. i've had experiences though when they appeared to be eights and above from afar and their ratings dropped significantly upon closer inspection.
 

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Originally posted by solo1
..anyone with similar reactions?
It happens all the time. Here in Minnesota the accent of the stereotypical woman is like that from the movie Fargo. Very nasal with extra emphasis on hard vowels (don't ask, I had to study the stuff). The fact is that it grates my skin when I hear it, no matter how attractive the woman may be. Then if she's an airhead I just shake my head.

Women have this problem with men all of the time. Guys post about being dumped after a couple of dates all of the time. Does it happen because of his looks? No, if it was his looks he probably wouldn't have gotten the first date. It's usually what he says during the date that turns off women.

You won't hear many guys complain about it as you did because more times than not, a guy can overlook that to be able to sleep with a woman. One of the things that DJs have to contend with is that with time, we may become more particular about who we sarge since we can sarge anyone. ;)
 

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It's one thing to have an annoying accent, Fran Drescher style, it's quite something else to have yuck mouth.

I remember when I was 15 I worked at Pratt & Whitney in CT and there was a woman who worked in sheet metal, I'll call her Aleen, Now Aleen was what one would call a notorious slvt. The worst thing about her though, was her breath. B!tch smelled as if she'd had lunch eating a hobo's shoe and then chased it with a shot of diarhhea.

No excuse for it at all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by organizedconfusion
i remember this one Jennifer Anostan looking chick , she was hot-but when we spoke she sounded like beavis!
Noooo! That must of sucked. I like Aniston :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by john_1234
curious, but what was it about the way she talked that dropped her rating down to a five/six? i'm guessing her breath probably reeked like ****. haha, out of all the eights and above i've approached, i've never had an experience where their ratings dropped due to the way they talked or what not. i've had experiences though when they appeared to be eights and above from afar and their ratings dropped significantly upon closer inspection.
well usually she's very quiet in class and talks to no one, so basically her mouth is shut. however i was able to chat her up today. her teeth were crooked and the way she spoke was kinda fast.

but before that i thought she was pretty hot. now she's with the average crew.
 

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lol talking kind of fast is a turn off? haha wow and ppl call me fussy hahah
 

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ive had that happen before. Saw this hot chick and went to ttalk to her, every word out of her mouth was a cuss word (whch is such a huge turn off for me). I ended up just walking away.
 

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This is exactly why we should not be scared to approach women. So, next time you approach a 9 or 10 think of this experience.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by psychgrad
This is exactly why we should not be scared to approach women. So, next time you approach a 9 or 10 think of this experience.
^^^^ very well worded
 
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