Crazy Asian
Master Don Juan
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- Jan 29, 2007
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- 33
So this girl, lets call her beth, lives 2 hours away from me.
I met her once a year ago and we've talked over facebook casually.
I already had my prom, but my best friend and his girl friend invited me to their prom.
I asked this girl beth if she'd like to come, and I couldn't tell if she was excited or not.
At one point she said she'd love to, then she'd ask me over and over again if I was serious and really wanted her to.
Anyway, she came and it was alright.
Dinner was fine.
We got to the dance floor... and this is where I had a decision to make.
Her dad is my dad's semi-boss. He's not really my dad's boss, they work together, but he's like slightly more in charge.
So I was thinking if I grind with this girl and kiss her and stuff, I might mess up the relationship between my dad and her dad.
There was no way in hell I'd do that, so I just danced with her casually.
Then after 2 songs she started grinding on me HARD.
She's also on dance team so
.
Anyway, although it wasn't my school, I knew so many people there from state orchestra, swimming, and other stuff.
My social proof was through the roof, and I was approaching sets left and right.
Probably a total of 20 sets I approached.
I danced with a few other girls/groups, but mainly with beth.
During the dance she was grabbing my hand and **** and very playful.
When we got to after prom, it all went cold.
Maybe cause I didn't talk to her on the car ride here and she got mad?
I dunno.
But at post prom, she just wasn't into anything.
Didn't seem close to me, didn't want to do anything.
Just watched me play poker and sh1t.
I asked her to do other stuff with me, but she didn't want to.
It was weird.
Things just got worse and worse.
I don't know why.
Stuff like this always happens to me and I don't know why.
I really can't pinpoint a specific thing I did, so what are some possibilities?
It's really annoying cause this type of stuff happens to me a lot where the girls is interested at first, but looses interest all of a sudden.
My best guesses are:
1. I got too "emotional" with her... like held her hand and put my arm around her and stuff while she just wanted to have a fun time.
2. I approached too many girls and she got pissed and thought I didn't take her seriously.
3. She doesn't find me attractive.
I met her once a year ago and we've talked over facebook casually.
I already had my prom, but my best friend and his girl friend invited me to their prom.
I asked this girl beth if she'd like to come, and I couldn't tell if she was excited or not.
At one point she said she'd love to, then she'd ask me over and over again if I was serious and really wanted her to.
Anyway, she came and it was alright.
Dinner was fine.
We got to the dance floor... and this is where I had a decision to make.
Her dad is my dad's semi-boss. He's not really my dad's boss, they work together, but he's like slightly more in charge.
So I was thinking if I grind with this girl and kiss her and stuff, I might mess up the relationship between my dad and her dad.
There was no way in hell I'd do that, so I just danced with her casually.
Then after 2 songs she started grinding on me HARD.
She's also on dance team so
.Anyway, although it wasn't my school, I knew so many people there from state orchestra, swimming, and other stuff.
My social proof was through the roof, and I was approaching sets left and right.
Probably a total of 20 sets I approached.
I danced with a few other girls/groups, but mainly with beth.
During the dance she was grabbing my hand and **** and very playful.
When we got to after prom, it all went cold.
Maybe cause I didn't talk to her on the car ride here and she got mad?
I dunno.
But at post prom, she just wasn't into anything.
Didn't seem close to me, didn't want to do anything.
Just watched me play poker and sh1t.
I asked her to do other stuff with me, but she didn't want to.
It was weird.
Things just got worse and worse.
I don't know why.
Stuff like this always happens to me and I don't know why.
I really can't pinpoint a specific thing I did, so what are some possibilities?
It's really annoying cause this type of stuff happens to me a lot where the girls is interested at first, but looses interest all of a sudden.
My best guesses are:
1. I got too "emotional" with her... like held her hand and put my arm around her and stuff while she just wanted to have a fun time.
2. I approached too many girls and she got pissed and thought I didn't take her seriously.
3. She doesn't find me attractive.
