"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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angel_7

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ok guys simple question.
just describe the kind of girl you find attractive. Tell us look and/or personality. Lets see what is most popular with the guys out there.
for me she has to be Christian, funny, with a nice smile.
I might post and example or two later...
pictures welcome.
cya
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm not a DJ, nor a AFC, I play my own game, using both styles of technique.

I like girls that are sweethearts and have some intelligence to them. They have to have natural good looks (as compared to too ugly, or too hot, neither is good). They have to be dependable, willing to listen and to be able to talk about their day with some degree of detail. They shouldn't be a huge flirt, but still have some flirt in them. They should be comfortable with me and can enjoy time together. I should be able to see some form of relationship that if it was to happen, would last at least 3 months. She should take a interest in my life and finally for them to be to that level, I must be able to say 'Wow!' at least twice a week when I see them.
 
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Socially Adjusted >> Comfortable talking and relating to anyone. Make friends easily.
Confident >> Believe in themselves. Healthy self-esteem. (not to be confused with arrogance)
Genuine >> Completely sincere and direct
Playful >> Fun-loving and Flirtatious.
Creative >> Filled with imagination and great ideas
Talented >> Naturally blessed with impressive skills
Passionate >> Emotionally alive and uninhibited.
Intuitive >> Able to read situations and people with ease.
Ambitious >> Driven and hardworking in their pursuit of goals and dreams
Laidback >> Free from unnecessary stress and drama
Witty >> Able to provoke laughter and thought with their mental agility.
Positive >> Gives off good vibes. No complaints or negative gossiping.
Unpredictable >> Interesting, original & stimulating.

IF a girl have half of the traits above, I wouldnt ask for more.
 

pimpfromdayone

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You said "hot chicks" so I assume you meant physical appearance as well.
In that case, I like them short (5'7" max, preferably closer to 5'0" though) and petite. They also have to be young looking, but the petite girls usually are. These girls should have the "natural" beauty and not need much or any make-up. I like the cute, schoolgirl, "girl-next-door" type. I like most hot chicks but my tastes differ a lot from others, and I often find myself liking girls a lot of guys don't really like as much, which can be good. Their weight should be somewhere within the normal range for their height. Body shape should be the "hourglass," but as long as they have a nice ass and big hips I am happy. I like nice thighs and legs too. Feet should be rather small, not man feet, lol. Ideal ti-t size is B, maybe C, nothing too big.
Ideal hair/eye color: light brown/green... All hair and eye colors are fine.
Their clothes: not picky but I love capri pants, short skirts, tight jeans, sandals, and other preppy girl clothing.
She doesn't have to be perfect like this but these are just the things I generally like. I consider myself VERY picky. I see guys dating girls everyone likes all the time that I would not even be physically attracted to.
Oh yeah, an accent of some sort can be sexy, such as a southern accent.

Personality: I am not at all picky here, as long as they're not a bit-ch, slu-t, snob, or attention-wh-ore. I like a girl who acts feminine, plain and simple. She should be submissive, decent confidence, somewhat intelligent, loyal, laid-back, mature and down-to-earth, non-slu-tty, and most importantly of all, very nice and caring. I could care less about: her social status or skills, how funny she is, and for the most part how confident she is. If I am physically attracted to her and is not a bit-ch, she's pretty much fine with me, because for excitement and fun, I'll provide the rest :) After all, I am the man.
 

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I like country girls who wear cowboy hats with mini skirts.
:DROOL:

Im from jersey. Weird? yes. I will be moving down south ASAP. :)

I also like them deathly skinny with ribs showing. why? Not sure. haha ... k maybe not that skinny, but i like really little girls (not in age sickos.)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I guess you know I like emo chicks, I know, weird fetish.

I always go for personality, because I am a hopless romantic, lol.

Seriously, even though I am a DJ, can pull any chick I want, the secret is finding a chick I really want.

But basically, I want a down to earth, fun, girl.

Not too popular, and basically, if I find her, I will know.

As for looks, they have to be somewhat good looking, and stuff like that.
 
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