"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hot chicks are nicer!!!

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I'm sitting at a bus stop today, and there's two women waiting with me. One easily an hb9, the other hb3. I asked both of them a question concerning when the next bus would arrive.

HB3 gives me a look like she's smelling something bad. She mumbled something and then went back to being fat and ugly.

HB9 walks over to me, answers my question and has a very nice conversation with me. She was a delight!!!...But I didn't number close. I was so taken back by her wonderful attitude that I never even considered ruining it by making her uncomfortable.

So...the moral of this story is...sometimes ugly *****es have ugly attitudes to match..and beautiful women have beautiful attitudes..don't assume because she's hot that she's stuck up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ugly women suck at everything, Their life sucks thats why they have ****ty attitudes. Their looks reflect their personality. They act like every guy is an ******* and out to get them, most of them are femminist too. They are mostly the shallowest of them all too, most midget sized women under 5'2 are only looking for a guy 6'0 or taller and Fat chicks won't date fat guys, I know this warpig who acts like she is the sh*t. They just suck!

The goodlooking ones are the most friendly, and easy going
 

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we should have some compassion. as a longtime afc, i could have been the male version of that. speaking from personal experience, can you imagine the bitterness, envy and hatred for someone who has been ostracized from life and romance and who has been made to suffer while others seemingly easily enjoy everything life has to offer?

anyhoo, it is true and this goes against the common myth that fat ugly girls and AFCs have beautiful souls.

it's unfair but biblical "those who have will be given more, those who do not have, even what they have will be taken from them."

it's not hard to imagine why this is:

- beautiful attractive people have been the objects of love and adoration all their lives.

- ugly ostracized people are poorly socialized and expect only ill treatment from others so they in turn reflect that expectation back to the world and react in a hostile manner.

truly an unfair aspect of reality... that the priveleged and beautiful are often better people than the poor and unattractive.

but this is where REFLECTION between you and the world can have an iffy cause and effect. the world treats you badly so you expect that from the world and you turn mean and so the world treats you badly. but you can short circuit this by becoming loving and open. you disrupt the vicious cycle and can create a benevolent one. this is why most religions end up being helpful... they teach you to be good regardless of circumstances and this in turn makes circumstances begin to favor you.

delta
 

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Dude man, that's a broad brushstroke you're painting chicks with.

I've known ugly-ass chicks who had hearts of gold and I've known attractive women who were fledgling witches.

This said, knowing the nature of woman (competitive and catty as hell), the fact that an hb9 & hb3 were sharing the same space was a situation ripe for dramatics. The hb9, knowing that she was the star of the show, for now, would shine. The hb3, knowing that she was being sorely outshined, would act like a wretched, bitter c**t.

I would venture to say that if you ever caught either of these chicks alone in any other context, their personalities might be completely opposite what you experienced down at the busstop. Chicks, isolated, show their true colors.
 

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Mr. Unique said:
Ugly women suck at everything, Their life sucks thats why they have ****ty attitudes. Their looks reflect their personality. They act like every guy is an ******* and out to get them, most of them are femminist too. They are mostly the shallowest of them all too, most midget sized women under 5'2 are only looking for a guy 6'0 or taller and Fat chicks won't date fat guys, I know this warpig who acts like she is the sh*t. They just suck!

The goodlooking ones are the most friendly, and easy going

classic example. instead of improving themselves, losing weight, becoming more attractive and getting a better personality, they blame the man and accuse him of "oppression"

most feminists are ugly.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Attractive girls have to pretend to be interested and let guys down easy more often, so they're more practiced at pretending to be nice, thats why.
 

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Hot chicks are also hotter bros
 

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Knyteguy said:
I've noticed, that it's much easier to pick up hb7-8+ , any lower, for some reason just won't respond to me.
The less attractive ones are just too stupidly self-conscious! It's not your fault man. I experience something similar. I am a fairly good looking guy and unless she is a 7 or above, it is like she is intimidated or too self-conscious for me. Just low self-esteem in general. Like they can't make themselves believe you might like them and become cold fish.

Their problem, not yours. Keep on going.
 

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so fu<king tru hot girls are so cheery and nice and etc... but the ugly ones a biches i used to think it was cos the hot ones pity me but since this site i relly do have a wol;e NEW perspective on life
 

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Personally I prefer hitting on beautiful girls as the ugly ones are likelier to reject me, from my experience.

You gotta observe another phenomenon: when a girl is in a period of "seeking a male", she is more attractive: her skin is smoother, shinier, her eyelid larger, she smiles more; that's why sometimes we are under the impression that more attractive women are curiously more responsive...

Somone with a low self-esteem tends to "train" on uglier chicks thinking it will be easier, and due to their bitter attitude, the self-esteem of the guy worsen and this is a vicious circle.

That dispells the myth that the more beautiful, the harder it is to get the girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HB3 gives me a look like she's smelling something bad. She mumbled something and then went back to being fat and ugly.
They are mostly the shallowest of them all too, most midget sized women under 5'2 are only looking for a guy 6'0 or taller and Fat chicks won't date fat guys, I know this warpig who acts like she is the sh*t. They just suck!
Haha, classics.
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
So...the moral of this story is...sometimes ugly *****es have ugly attitudes to match..and beautiful women have beautiful attitudes..don't assume because she's hot that she's stuck up.
No, the moral is that you should close hbs. Which you didn't do!
 

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Average women are *****y

Actually I disagree average people are the most *****y people they are out there.Average size women,average looking women are the most *****y.In my life average women have always had the nastiest attitude I don't even like to approach them as a man.I am a big guy at 6 3 270 and the women that have the nastiest attitude to me are the people that are 30-60 pounds over weight.They are the ones that screw up their face at me and all of that.I say to myself this girl is 10 20 30 pounds from me and she has an absolutely nasty attitude.The girls that are just alright the 7s are the ones with the most attitude too.I rather talk to a skinny and normal size girl any day over a thick girl any day.I also rather talk to a pretty girl or an ugly girl with something going for her than an one of those girls that are just alright.That's how it goes.
 

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Delta said:
this is why most religions end up being helpful... they teach you to be good regardless of circumstances and this in turn makes circumstances begin to favor you.

Wow you had me until here.

The religions I'm aware of ostracize unbelievers and hold up scientific research that would benefit the whole of mankind while sticking their nose into everyone's personal life while looking down their nose at those different than they.

Then there's the ones who have nothing better to do than blow sh1t up in the name of their god.
 

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mrruckus,

actually, you're talking about the monotheistic religions.... most of the others are a bit more laid back.

also, i'm not talking about fundamentalism or strict adherence to doctrine.

but in general, religions teach you to love others and look out for the good of others ahead of your own.

this kind of philosophy, i'm saying, short circuits the vicious cycle.

delta
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Delta said:
mrruckus,

but in general, religions teach you to love others and look out for the good of others ahead of your own.

These things should not need to be taught.

And teaching them and preaching them is not the same as doing them. And religions fail because followers of them pick and choose which things they want to follow. Like "ohhhh i'll follow the thou shalt not kill but adultery and keep holy the sabbath... to hell with that."
 

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As far as I'm concerned it is the HB7 and 8's who are the most responsive and freindly to me as about 50% of them are strongly attracted to me and realize that I am often strongly attracted to them, though because only about 10% of HB9 and 10's are strongly attracted to me I probably think of the majority of them as being total b1tches because I am not getting what I desire from them, which is a fvck of course, in a similar way the uglier girls are total b1tches to me for the same reason because they know that I am never going to fvck them, which lowers their own personal self esteem, which results in their being unfreindly and hating me, it goes both ways. :up:
 

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SamePendo said:
No, the moral is that you should close hbs. Which you didn't do!
Well said!

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Mr_knowit_all said:
HB9 walks over to me, answers my question and has a very nice conversation with me. She was a delight!!!...But I didn't number close. I was so taken back by her wonderful attitude that I never even considered ruining it by making her uncomfortable.

This is a horrible frame to be coming from...
"Ruining it by making her uncomfortable."

Thats simply just your perception of it. Not necessarily the truth. Who's to say she wouldn't have been totally flattered!? Or even... liked to have given you her number, as she enjoyed the "very nice" conversation herself.

Check this frame... its damaging.
And KNOW, that thats all it is... a Frame. (NOT necessarily the truth)

Peace'
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
I'm sitting at a bus stop today, and there's two women waiting with me. One easily an hb9, the other hb3. I asked both of them a question concerning when the next bus would arrive.

HB3 gives me a look like she's smelling something bad. She mumbled something and then went back to being fat and ugly.

HB9 walks over to me, answers my question and has a very nice conversation with me. She was a delight!!!...But I didn't number close. I was so taken back by her wonderful attitude that I never even considered ruining it by making her uncomfortable.

So...the moral of this story is...sometimes ugly *****es have ugly attitudes to match..and beautiful women have beautiful attitudes..don't assume because she's hot that she's stuck up.

Nonsense, the hot girls are socially confident and therefore pleasant. Plus they have less to be bitter about. But they can and mostly r biotches deep down. The ugly girls are usually much better people deep down. But they are ugly and bitter about it, and not as confident socially. Not always but i think thats the case more often that not.

Best song ever written is that 60's song - not sure of the artist, but the chorus goes:

"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, make an ugly woman your wife. From my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you."
 
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