"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hot chick got me confused on our way to a 1 night stand

l23

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Hey guys thanx 4 all the djs for helping me w/ my game. I met this chick at a party. She has a bangin body n a cute face. we danced for a long n slowly I put my hands in her jeans n started fingering her for a while. She turneed arround n we made out. At one moment I felt she got excited n she told me she couldn't go further cuz she has a bf who lives out of state n she couldn't betray him. I was kind of pissed but I noticed she wanted 2 fvck w/ me cuz she was squeezing me against her, putting her hands under my shirt, but as soon as we start going 2 far she tells me the same. I got her digits though but I want 2 know what happened in that situation.
P.S I don't believe she has a bf cuz she didn't say so on her facebook.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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l23

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in addition she said: "btw i am not dating that officially, so if you are wondering why that isn't on my profile, we are keeping it quiet until we know if we think we can make it work. we'll see." although I haven't brought up relationship topic. HELP this situation is really confusing me
 

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So what?Say to her "well it looks like its not working out well enough since you've been snooping around with me.i think theres another much better person you'd have a better experience with".
 
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