"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hot chick got me confused on our way to a 1 night stand

l23

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Hey guys thanx 4 all the djs for helping me w/ my game. I met this chick at a party. She has a bangin body n a cute face. we danced for a long n slowly I put my hands in her jeans n started fingering her for a while. She turneed arround n we made out. At one moment I felt she got excited n she told me she couldn't go further cuz she has a bf who lives out of state n she couldn't betray him. I was kind of pissed but I noticed she wanted 2 fvck w/ me cuz she was squeezing me against her, putting her hands under my shirt, but as soon as we start going 2 far she tells me the same. I got her digits though but I want 2 know what happened in that situation.
P.S I don't believe she has a bf cuz she didn't say so on her facebook.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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l23

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in addition she said: "btw i am not dating that officially, so if you are wondering why that isn't on my profile, we are keeping it quiet until we know if we think we can make it work. we'll see." although I haven't brought up relationship topic. HELP this situation is really confusing me
 

619joe

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So what?Say to her "well it looks like its not working out well enough since you've been snooping around with me.i think theres another much better person you'd have a better experience with".
 
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