Hot chick besides me how to close her?

[vivek59234]

Guys,

I was enjoying a party with my friends at my apartment and suddenly someone knocked the door... I opened it and fck was surprised, there was a damn hot girl... She asked me for some waste papers as she was my new neighbor just besides my flat...

Damn... I took it up... built a little convo. and a firm hand shake... introduced each other and than I moved back as I had my friends waiting for me...


Couple of days later again she met me and we had a small conversation about her work and stuffs...

Now I really need help on this to close... She lives all alone besides me and works in a call center...

How will I approach her? Shall I knock her place and talk or what? Need some help to close her...

 

[speedwheel]

Why didn't you invite her to stay at your party? Or why didn't you suggest coffee or something to get to know each other when she left with her waste papers?

Knock on her door and say you're headed out to do ________ (whatever) and ask if she would like to come along. Be like "hey, I'm running out to the store around the corner to pick up some milk and there's this awesome ice cream shop on the way that has the best sundaes that I've been craving...thought maybe I'd give you an invite."

If she's busy or whatever tell her some other time. Then next time you see her say something like "hey, we gotta grab that ice cream, remember" in a playful voice.

 

[vivek59234]

Not a bad idea about ice cream though... Or shall I just go and knock the door asking for something and than start convo. from there....

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

We can't hold your hand. Don't do this thing where you ask one question, and then you have 10 more questions for every response you get. "Shall I....shall I...."

Just do something. He gave you good advice. Make up the rest on your own.

 

[909pua]

I would just say "hi, how are you doing" "what's your name"

 

[kingsam]

FOr many people a neigbour is a "NO-NO"...what happens when you realise she is a "crazy", you dump her, but she starts spreading terrible rumours about you to all your other neighbours...and every one starts hating on you, and aviouding you??!
what do you do then??

see kailex's thread...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172984

So... I was coming out of my apartment today and she came out of hers at the same time. She was leaving to go somewhere and I was just going to get something out of my car.

She definitely had a completely different attitude towards me today than yesterday when she was asking me out.

I might have dodged the cougar bullet with this one. If she was that cold and dismissive because I turned down a night out with her, I can only imagine what would have happened later down the road after a few fvcks and then her seeing me bringing other chicks into my apartment.

I'll be neighborly, but I'll stay distant.

generally any girl who you can't get out of your life if sh!t hits the fan. A girl can be nice one minute and a b!tch the next so you always gotta have an escape plan.