"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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vivek59234

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Guys,

I was enjoying a party with my friends at my apartment and suddenly someone knocked the door... I opened it and fck was surprised, there was a damn hot girl... She asked me for some waste papers as she was my new neighbor just besides my flat...

Damn... I took it up... built a little convo. and a firm hand shake... introduced each other and than I moved back as I had my friends waiting for me...


Couple of days later again she met me and we had a small conversation about her work and stuffs...

Now I really need help on this to close... She lives all alone besides me and works in a call center...

How will I approach her? Shall I knock her place and talk or what? Need some help to close her...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why didn't you invite her to stay at your party? Or why didn't you suggest coffee or something to get to know each other when she left with her waste papers?

Knock on her door and say you're headed out to do ________ (whatever) and ask if she would like to come along. Be like "hey, I'm running out to the store around the corner to pick up some milk and there's this awesome ice cream shop on the way that has the best sundaes that I've been craving...thought maybe I'd give you an invite."

If she's busy or whatever tell her some other time. Then next time you see her say something like "hey, we gotta grab that ice cream, remember" in a playful voice.
 
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Not a bad idea about ice cream though... Or shall I just go and knock the door asking for something and than start convo. from there....
 
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We can't hold your hand. Don't do this thing where you ask one question, and then you have 10 more questions for every response you get. "Shall I....shall I...."

Just do something. He gave you good advice. Make up the rest on your own.
 
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I would just say "hi, how are you doing" "what's your name"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FOr many people a neigbour is a "NO-NO"...what happens when you realise she is a "crazy", you dump her, but she starts spreading terrible rumours about you to all your other neighbours...and every one starts hating on you, and aviouding you??!
what do you do then??

see kailex's thread...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172984

Kailex said:
So... I was coming out of my apartment today and she came out of hers at the same time. She was leaving to go somewhere and I was just going to get something out of my car.

She definitely had a completely different attitude towards me today than yesterday when she was asking me out.

I might have dodged the cougar bullet with this one. If she was that cold and dismissive because I turned down a night out with her, I can only imagine what would have happened later down the road after a few fvcks and then her seeing me bringing other chicks into my apartment.

I'll be neighborly, but I'll stay distant.
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starplayer said:
generally any girl who you can't get out of your life if sh!t hits the fan. A girl can be nice one minute and a b!tch the next so you always gotta have an escape plan.
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