"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hot Barbie vs Educated Women

abe0

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Okay...here it goes! I have seeing many highly educated men get bored with their "housewives" and after many years they grow apart. I was married for over 20 years to a very special lady who was educated ..but lost her to a severe mental illness. Now I am dating for the first time in over 20 years and I thought that I wanted a professional woman with a higher level of education only to find out that...yes, these women have been tainted by the woman's movement.
Then I meet this lady who have never been to college only to find out that not only is she really attractive..but very smart and yes....WORDLY...of which I expected only in highly educated women. I was wrong on many grounds to make certain assumptions....and as someone said there are many levels of education.
This is new to a man who the last time he dated was in the early 1980s. Then I get people hung up of words....troll....Can anyone have a reasonable discussion around here as grown men without accusing people of being trolls?
For those who responded....thank you...and I hope that those who read this thread do not make the same wrong assumptions about college v non college educated women that I did.
My best to all....Abe
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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