Hot and Cold

[The Slight Edge]

On December 24th, I reached out and sent a text to this girl who I’m pretty sure is into me. We’ve only talked a small amount in real life/social circle but she seemed highly interested.

Her response on the 24th seemed to validate this, as she was seemed very excited and responsive. It ended by her saying she was going to bed and told me Merry Christmas. I didn’t respond to her last message.

Fast forward to the 29th late at night she sends me a snapchat picture of her at this bar. The name of the bar is actually my name, so she circles my name where it shows where she is, so I know this snapchat was sent only to me.

I didn’t get this snapchat until the next morning. However, I was extremely busy where I legitimately could not be on my phone the whole day.

Therefore, I didn’t respond until the 31st. She seemed like a completely different person. She gave a bland response and then ignored my second message.

Is she mad that I didn’t respond to her fast enough? Only thing I can do here is never contact her again, correct?

Lastly, this girl also knows I have a girlfriend. I just wanted to see if there was any chemistry.

 

[17 shots]

women are weird like that, they can be cool one day, and then act like an ******* the next. it just depends on whats going on with them that day. Just ignore stuff like that. There is also a chance that she is trying to do back to you, what you did to her, purposely or not. In an attempt to get your mind running and get you to chase. Its a test of frame... you know like, ok, he can dish it out, but can he take it.... but again, just ignore it. keep doing what you've been doing. Wait a few days and contact her again, just NEVER double text her in the same day if she doesnt respond

 

[The Slight Edge]

women are weird like that, they can be cool one day, and then act like an ******* the next. it just depends on whats going on with them that day. Just ignore stuff like that. There is also a chance that she is trying to do back to you, what you did to her, purposely or not. In an attempt to get your mind running and get you to chase. Its a test of frame... you know like, ok, he can dish it out, but can he take it.... but again, just ignore it. keep doing what you've been doing. Wait a few days and contact her again, just NEVER double text her in the same day if she doesnt respond

Alright thanks man! Yeah it probably has more to do with what was going on with her that day maybe, or she was getting back at me haha we’ll never know I guess!

So you think it’s worth contacting her again after a few days go by? I would assume there is some interest for her to send me that snapchat out of the blue, but who knows!