"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hors and Prudes -- A thin line?

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A hor is an over-sexed, promiscuous, aggressive (essentially masculine) woman who is fairly easy to pick up (comparatively speaking) but just as easy to lose. Due to her extremely fickle nature, she will in all likelihood tire of you and soon look for another source of pleasure.

A prude, in contrast, is a sexually repressed (or perhaps bordering on asexual) woman. You might include the majority of very shy girls in this group.

I hypothesize that both perversions of femininity are the result of feminism. Feminism typically leads women to believe some or all of the following:

1) Women are equal to men in every way
2) Women don't need men
3) Men are bad
4) Relationships (which, by nature, MUST have a dominant male to ensure stability) are oppressive toward women.



Therefore, prudes are just as unlikely to enter relationships as hors. There doesn't seem to be that much of a difference between a prude and a hor except that a hor does not fear being branded a slut.

I would like analysis of this concept. Do prudes really exist? Are they as I described? Or is there just a sub-set of girls that I have absolutely no clue how to attract? (Many of the girlz at my school, especially the religious ones, are IMPOSSIBLE to hook up with. This is particularly bad because I'm religious myself...)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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prude
–noun a person who is excessively proper or modest in speech, conduct, dress, etc.


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[Origin: 1695–1705; < F prude a prude (n.), prudish (adj.), short for prudefemme, OF prodefeme worthy or respectable woman. See proud, feme]

—n. One who is excessively concerned with being or appearing to be proper, modest, or righteous.


A virgin is not "excessive" rather it is a natural state and she is born in this condition!!!!!!!! A virgin cannot be a prude since ths (being a virgin - untouched sexually) is her genetic disposition!!!!!
 

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So all/most the girlz that I think of as prudes are actually real women (and potentially relationship material)? Perhaps the masculine-but-not-entirely sexual approach would work with them?

An interesting perspective, but I am not sure.
 

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Actually, I left something out of the original post...

Many of the prudes at my school seem to be attention wh0rez. They will flirt with you, but they never actually do anything substantive (either slutty or relationship-wise) with ANY guys.

Not all of the prudes are like this, but a significant number.
 
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Obsidian said:
.... but they never actually do anything substantive (either slutty or relationship-wise) with ANY guys.

Not all of the prudes are like this, but a significant number.
Because they are NOT hors!!! Nor are they "prudes" - they are women!!!!

There is no such thing as a "attention hor" - a female wanting attention does not make her a hor!!!

Women crave the men dynamic and know the duality that attracts men - which is their feminity!!! Women seek men's attention because they are in sync with their feminine nature!!! Is it natural for a woman to attrtact the romantic interest of a woman?? NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So they seek a man!!! Just because they reject "YOUR" advances doesn't make them an attention hor!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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But as I said, they reject all advances. There's a whole group of girls that act like this. A lot of them are in sororities so they'll take a guy with them to certain Greek events from time to time (usually just a friend), but they'll never actually date anybody. I can't really understand it, but as I said, I think they have been influenced by feminism. ("Jesus is the only man I need in my life," and all that crap)
 
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Obsidian said:
But as I said, they reject all advances. There's a whole group of girls that act like this. A lot of them are in sororities so they'll take a guy with them to certain Greek events from time to time (usually just a friend), but they'll never actually date anybody. I can't really understand it, but as I said, I think they have been influenced by feminism. ("Jesus is the only man I need in my life," and all that crap)
Read my post above again - I edited it!

Women have the right to submit! to whomever!!!!!!!!!!!!! It is best and only right if they submit to their husbavd!!!!! Who ARE YOU TO SAY OTHERWISE!!!
 

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omg,

so this is the type of discussions that go on around here? But wait a minute, didn't you guys just say you CAN'T figure women out...well then what's all this ****ing so called INFORMATION you are sharing?

If you can't figure women out, then what makes you think your little "theories" are correct? I'm reporting this site to somebody. I'm going to try and get it shut down...then what are you going to do with your life losers?:nervous:
 
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