"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJ4Real

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We all have these type of days (weeks). But don't worry about it too much, you'll do fine.
 

BBX

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You will get over it, this kind of thing happens....but hey...at least you don't have oneitis....thats a horrible low:kick:
 

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Everyone gets ditched~ I asked a girl to go to the movies she said she was busy! Then i called her again her dad picked up and said she was already in the movies!! Well things like that always happen.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheNewGuy

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shydude said:
Everyone gets ditched~ I asked a girl to go to the movies she said she was busy! Then i called her again her dad picked up and said she was already in the movies!! Well things like that always happen.
It's not the girls I care about. It's the guys...
 

dannowillbookem

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i have that problem too. always kinda the outsider feeling. but meh my difference is my genius
 

dannowillbookem

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gay haha thats what i thought at first but i decided not to be douchey and talk about the real problem
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheNewGuy

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I wish this forum had a delete button...

I ****ing hate mood swings
 
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