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[Dee-Zy]

I'm tired of hearing the same lines over and over again. The same advices, be confident, don't be a doormat, stop putting her on a pedestal, ect.

I am going to tell you only THREE things you need to remember, 3. Anything else is extra, it is not mandatory.

Are you sick and tired of never taking action? These are the 3 only things you need to know. Write this in your head with the biggest permanent red marker you can find.


1) A man doesn't make any excuse for its desires. Thus, YOU don't make ANY excuses to do what you want to do. If you want it, do whatever the f#ck you can to get it.

2) A woman has a perfectly good p#ssy, thus she doesn't need another one. No woman worth getting should have balls bigger than yours.

3) Who cares what she thinks/wants/or any other bullsh!t going through her head. What matters is what YOU WANT. Nothing else. So DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO, JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT TO.


Here is one last bonus I shall give you guys...

Nothing in this life worth having comes easy. Life is scary, get use to it.


Now stop over stuffing your head with ssv info you will ever going to utilize.


Only once you master these 3 statements and make it part of you, should you and need you continue reading further material on ssv.


DZ

 

[Dee-Zy]

I know this is nothing new, but I think it is mandatory for everybody to know. I truely believe that it is pointless to further any knowledge on this site until these three statements are mastered and becomes part of you.


I hope this will help some and enlight others ... otherwise, I know it will be a good wake up call for me time to time. I can just come back here to knock myself some senses when needed.

GHOST

 

[squirrels]

One more thing:

YOU WILL FAIL.

The biggest thing holding guys back from being themselves and taking risks is the fear of failing, of somehow ticking the girl off or losing her interest. But that WILL happen eventually with any girl, evne the one's you boink, until you find one who you're compatible with.

But does that mean you should sit in your closet and wait for the right woman to come along to insure zero chance of failure? You're STILL failing...just slowly and painfully.

One of the consequences of living is death. It can't be avoided...if you go out after women, or ANYTHING, chances are you WILL fail.

The thing is that the failures teach better lessons than your successes EVER will. If you're MAN enough and they don't break you, they toughen you up, make you stronger, and teach you how to succeed.

The important thing, though, isn't really whether you succeed or fail. The important thing is that you stand up and take the journey.

 

[Dee-Zy]

thanks squirrel, that is a good one. I completely agree with it. Never let the fear of failure overcome the joy of success.

I guess we should of made it five fold instead of three-fold.



DZ

 

[ApocalypseCow2]

Thanks for the post. It's stuff we've all heard before.....but every once in awhile, we need to smack ourselves in the head and get our ass back in gear.

 

[Hound_of_Love]

YOU WILL FAIL.

Indeed.

Many years ago, when I first learnt to snowboard I was talking to a snowboard pro at the end of a day on the hill. He asked me how my day was and I told him it was great because I didn't fall over once.

He said to me, something that's stuck with me ever since, "if you don't fall over, you aren't pushing yourself hard enough".

I figured that was applicable to all areas of life.

 

[Holland]

He said to me, something that's stuck with me ever since, "if you don't fall over, you aren't pushing yourself hard enough".

I disagree. As a skateboarder (kind of similar), I think it's better to avoid falling. Of course you gotta try hard to learn and you will fall. But getting hurt is not the way to progression. It's just something that's going to happen during this process (and it can even slow it down if you try things that are too 'big' for you (at that point). Concentration and being commited is the way that leads to progression. That is indeed applicapable in almost all areas of life.

 

[Hound_of_Love]

I think it's better to avoid falling. Of course you gotta try hard to learn and you will fall.

He didn't mean you should try to fall, he meant, if you're trying your hardest, the chances are you will fall...often. If you never do, then you're staying in your comfort zone.

Either that or you've reached some Zen level of ability...

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
He didn't mean you should try to fall, he meant, if you're trying your hardest, the chances are you will fall...often. If you never do, then you're staying in your comfort zone.

Either that or you've reached some Zen level of ability...

That's kind of like lifting weights and sometimes dropping them on yourself.

You're supposed to gradually add more weight and not lose the correct form and end up injuring yourself. If you go only a little beyond what you did last time you should safely progress.

Not that you might not get hurt anyway but it'll sure cut down on it. No reason to expect to get hurt every day or "you're not trying hard enough."

None of that applies to getting girls though.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
Thanks for the post. It's stuff we've all heard before.....but every once in awhile, we need to smack ourselves in the head and get our ass back in gear.

You missed the point. Of course this is something we've all heard before. The importance of this thread is, This is the ONLY thing you need to know. Anything else from kino to conversational skills to C+F whatever, is extra. It isn't necessary. If anybody wants to be a DJ, these are the only 5 things they need to know and remember. Even "Being Confident", I would argue is non-mandatory because if one applies this and keeps these statements in their head, they will succeed, and confidence comes from accumulating success.

OF course, this is very basic, one needs to further, but if you don't have these 5 statements in your head all the time, it's pointless to learn anything further.


Regarding that snowborder, I completely agree with him. If you haven't fall once, that means you haven't pushed yourself hard enough.