HOPELESS w/ the females...Advice?

[Mr.Chinaman]

Currently I am a 31 yr old single asian dude that have absolutley "no game" in me....never did. I find that even trying to talk to a girl is hard for me nowadays. As what the title says "hopeless with the females" is how I truly feel. I feel stupid even typing this blog / thread on this site, but my buddy insisted me on doing so. Well, i guess i might as well share my problems with everybody else so you guys can have a good laugh and see how pathetic my love life is.
Alot off ppl say to be positive and be happy which i am all the time, yet no luck. I go out all time time, even being a part time promoter for a night club on friday evenings - yet no luck. I don't intend to get to getting "hooked up" at a club anyway, but just to network, but yet networking is something i still need to work on still. Everybody has flaws, yet, im not the ugliest yet not the best looking guy, not tall either, im only 5'7, no $, still lives at home, *sighs* i just don't know. Maybe its just fate. I come from a very superstitious family (buddhist) and even the fortune teller says, my luck in love is complicated...80% of all my friends are either married or engaged, i feel so left out as into why i am suffering like this. I am very happy to attend weddings yet, sad / depressed as i feel lonliness. I dont even have a date to go to the weddings. Back in high school, I felt like the "****" when girls were after me all the time. I never thought it would come to this day as being so lonely / hopeless...an average frustrated 31 year old chump looking for answers.

 

[hithard]

You are too down on yourself. You say you act positive and happy, but don't sound comfortable in your own skin. You need to internalize the right attitude while you 'fake to you make it’ Sounds like a comfort rut may have led you to the position you are now in.
Are you trying the same thing over and over to get girls?
Are you expecting to make more money in the future?
Plans of moving in the near future?
How many girls do you talk with a week (work related/not work related)?
What specific problem do you have with women (e.g.: can't talk to them, can’t initiate contact, etc)
Sometimes you need to have some kind of plan you can progress to. Progressive change or further stagnation at this point imo

and even the fortune teller says, my luck in love is complicated

Yeah well I'm a fortune teller and I say your last fortune teller don't know $hit. Don't be a d.wad and listen to any further negative crap about your love life from anyone.

 

[ken chang]

Mr. Chinaman, I am a 38 yr.old Asian dude. I am in a relationship with a really sweet girl that I am no longer that interested in. I make opportunities to meet girls, though lately it seems that I am making a very horrible 1st impression. I'm talking "serial killer" 1st impression like lately I've been giving girls the creeps. And these aren't even girls I'm sexually attracted to yet. I have not yet identified what the problem is. Maybe I'm giving off too much sexual energy.(Years ago, I gave off zero sexual energy) But I am in the process of identifying the problem and improving my "game".

My point is, it's never too late to try and get better. Find out what's wrong, then work on it.