i don't know i just can't seem to cope with my loneliness these days. it can't be possible that a man has to deal with having no sex for 4 years. this **** makes my desperation at an all new high. every girl I meet I just can't be satisfied, or I hold it off until I'm not busy. i think I can control every aspect of it. is it really that hard to get a little love? the biggest slut who seems so innocent in nature can create so much of a pain in me and the most beautiful women seem like i have to wait for a miracle to happen. religion tells me that my dreams will come true, friends encourage me to improve my physical strength, and family is a distant know-it-all. i know some people have it worse but my efforts don't yield to too many results. i'm dabbling in the lake of self-pity, i know, but it's really not too bad. i'm sure some of you can feel the same way at times. people like me surely want to see a change.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MusicMan450
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Get out and have fun. Do something with your life and forget about women for a while. Once you start getting your life really on track, then you can be successful.
Yeah focus on yourself and improving your life. You seem really depressed and take it from me, that is not an attractive quality. I was much like you for a long time but I've recently been improving my life and I feel like a million bucks. Still single but I have options and a date Saturday night. Once you start focusing on self improvement women become less important and thus easier to get...I think. Testing that this weekend but even if I don't score I don't care because I finally like myself again and I feel great!
Good luck to you my friend but really, it's not about luck. Take charge!!
Good luck to you my friend but really, it's not about luck. Take charge!!
initiatorhater06
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Thats what I hate, us guys have to have a life in order to be boyfriend material, but girls just have to be hot and cute in order to be girlfriend material, they do not need to do things with their life, they do not need forget about men
EvilAgenda
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Hopeless romantic and rake walk hand in hand. You are going to be a ladies man. They won't stand a chance to resist your charms. I'll give it a couple of years.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's because for men looks are #1 while for women there is no clear #1.initiatorhater06 said:
Women could chose her #1 to be confidence, personality, social status, or even looks.
For us guys the first thing that attract us to a woman is how she looks before she even opens her mouth. She can open her mouth and talk about how she reads damn harry potter books all day and we wouldn't care that she's boring cause she's hot.
While for a woman you could be good looking but if you open your mouth and show her how boring you are she won't think again about you.
Women will forgive faults in our look department if our game, confidence, social status is tight.
Men will forgive women every little other aspect of her life as long as she's hot.
It's a trade off. Is it a fair trade off? Probably not as women only have to work on their looks while we have to work on things that are much more difficult to fix (confidence, social status, personality etc).
initiatorhater06
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I still think women have it easier, I don't know why people think that ugly women have it harder than ugly men
playergamehater
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agreed
hah, you remind me of myself a while ago. i was like that for many years. believe it or not i didn't have any sex or related for about 7 years. 4 years? pfft 
i was always home and didn't really go out much at all. when i moved state and started meeting more people and being social, i met girls. started having sex again and now am in a 3 month relationship. so far so good. i was always wanting to find a nice girl to be with and it never happened... i thought i was doomed to be single all my life. you just gotta be more social man. thats the key to meeting girls.
i was always home and didn't really go out much at all. when i moved state and started meeting more people and being social, i met girls. started having sex again and now am in a 3 month relationship. so far so good. i was always wanting to find a nice girl to be with and it never happened... i thought i was doomed to be single all my life. you just gotta be more social man. thats the key to meeting girls.“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
playergamehater
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yeah, God, Evolution intended it to be easy for Women