"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SinJester

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How much do they count? At parties? When drunk: When drunk even if youve been talking to them all night including when you'se were sober? If they are freinds? If they talk to you the next day? If they don't? If it's in person/msn/myspace?

How do you act the next day? When you want it to just be a random hookup? If you want it to be more? If it's a regret?

Help me out here guys. I'm the biggest pimp on the night, but my next-day game needs work.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Relax young pimp. You just go with the flow and tell them what they wanna hear the next day.
 

The Forms

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The only thing you really need to know is that you have to talk to her the next day, even just for 5 minutes. Otherwise she might feel you just used her and don't care at all.
 

SinJester

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Ohk good advice.

What do they want to hear the next day?

What do you suggest if you want to suggest something more just a bit?
 
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