"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hookup/old flame/back?

king0fhearts59

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sup gentlemen,

there's this girl, hot girl, long ago way back when her and i hooked up a few times. she left to albania that summer and when she returned we didnt even talk. Later on (about 2 years later) we had another class together and she brought up us hooking up in the past. It never worked out and time flew by and just recently( bout 2 hours ago) she messaged me asking how i was and that we should get together soon. of course i agreed and said something along the lines of:

me: ' yeah whatever lets get together this weekend and do something cheesy like bowling '.

her response: ' yeah im free saturday, id love to get everyone together and go bowling '

****!! i forgot that our old school friends suggested we all get together and hang out! NOW TO THE WHOLE PURPOSE OF THIS:
Should I say something like "No i was going more along the lines of just me and you, alone" or is she just testing me to see if i would say something like that? WHAT THE **** ?:nervous: HOOK IT UP DONS
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Just go and see what happens. If you two connect again and have a good time. Then, make a date another time for just the two of you...
 
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