"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hooking up with this girl in a few hours

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Any pre-hook up tips before I leave?

Edit: you should know it's her first time
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There are some traditional canned material you can use which could help you out if you're not experienced. Such as "I'm trying real hard not kiss your right now" or " How good of a kisser are you from 1-10?" (MM)
I remember using them when I was younger, and they gave me results. But keep 2 factors in mind. (1) make her comfortable and known to your touch (don't expect her to kiss you if she won't let you touch her), so work on the Kino. (2) Make eye contact: Look into her eyes for a few seconds, then slowly at her lips, tilt your head and go in. Be the first to end the kiss, and then it's easy from there.

And remember "The Game is played in comfort" so relax and be calm in whatever you're doing. If you possibly cant or something happens that triggers anxiety, act as if you've done this a hundred times before and you know what to do.

Its gonna be easy for you man because she's never kissed before, and all that means is you need to lead her in to the kiss. So don't expect her to make the move.
And believe me after a while you'll get the hang of it, and you're not gonna even think about it.

Hope it goes well.

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