"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hooking up with friends little sister

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mojo16

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I am currently hooking up with hottest girl ive ever scored.
strangely she happens to be my good friends little sister. (both are girls)
she is also a really nice/good girl. has never had another guy before me so yeah she is really shy and nervous about the whole thing.

ok so we both really like each other, we're practically dating i guess, we see each other often and blah blah blah.

anyways, the problem is, she is too shy to kiss me in front of people we know, she hasnt said this to me but im certain it's because she doesn't want her sister to find out... i actually sort of agree with her, it would be a little awkward if she found out..

no i think it will be difficult for the relationship to progress any further with this barrier... is there anything i can do to fix it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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talk to the big sister, your good friend, i guess. Old school. Spare her the sexual/kissing details though. Just talk to her about you and her sister...
 
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