"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hooking up with drunk chicks- yes or no?

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what do you guys believe about having sex with drunk chicks? i think if shes tearing your clothes off, then go for it. but if shes not all over you, then dont try to hook up with her. i ask this because on saturday night i was at a party with all chicks that were drunk and i was the soberest one there. i went with this hb8.5 and she got really drunk. she was like putting her arm around me a lot and getting all close to me and like asking for piggyback rides and ****. it was good kino. but i never kissed her or tried to make a move on her because i just thought it would be kind of wrong to hook up with a drunk chick. what would you guys have done in my situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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T Money

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of course have drunken sex man, but if she's too drunk to where you'd be taking advantage of her, then no. Most sex happens when people are drunk.
 

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So Many Ways said:
Absolutely not and I have my reasons, which I'd rather not divulge here.
What? You too good for us?

I could give you a few horror stories....:box:
 

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There's a difference between drunken sex and rape. And i'm pretty sure you know the difference. If she agrees, and the mood is right, and you're both happy and want to do it, then do it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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spider_007

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not unless you like getting puked on while your sticking your tung down her mouth.
 

Fash

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hell yeh!

Nothing wrong with hooking up and boning the sh!t out of a slightly drunk chick.

Reminds me of a scene from The 40 Year Old Virgin.

"All you got to do is use your instincts. How do you think a lion knows to tackle a gazelle? It's written, it's a code written in his DNA, says, "tackle the gazelle." And believe it or not, in every man there's a code written that says, "tackle drunk b1tches."

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Not according to feminism.
Feminism was started by a bunch of ugly chicks that were pissed bc they weren't getting any c0ck. That's my theory. And by strippers who like to cry rape to get money out of broke lacrosse players....
 

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If she's not a complete mess, I'd say go for it. My experience is that often a girl will drink to absolve herself of any responsibilty for choosing to sleep with you.

That being said, if she's so wasted that she needs your help just to walk, get her number and try later.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No. The only drunk chick I would have sex with is the woman I'm beeing sleeping with (and everybody knows she is my girlfriend) the last several months or my wife (if I was still married).

Random chicks? Nope. Female friends? Nope.

Look at the Duke students now. Future chattered.
 

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T Money said:
There's a difference between drunken sex and rape. And i'm pretty sure you know the difference. If she agrees, and the mood is right, and you're both happy and want to do it, then do it.
If she wakes up the next day and claims you took advantage of her while she was out of her faculties...then by law is rape.
 

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Look at the Duke students now. Future chattered./QUOTE]

You know is shouldn't be that way though. Those guys were innocent, and fukkin stripper wh0re is just seeing dollar signs, just like the girl that got Kobe....
 

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Latinoman said:
Look at the Duke students now. Future chattered./QUOTE]

You know is shouldn't be that way though. Those guys were innocent, and fukkin stripper wh0re is just seeing dollar signs, just like the girl that got Kobe....
I was not there and I have not seen the evidence...so I don't know.

I don't know about Kobe either.

I do, however, believe that Mike Tyson did NOT rape that woman. The more I read the transcripts of that particular case, the more I felt he was wrongfully accused of rape.
 

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If she wakes up the next day and claims you took advantage of her while she was out of her faculties...then by law is rape.
Not if you can make the exact same claim.

(Sure, she raped me too! I'm not going to charge her though, I half enjoyed her coming on to me)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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flippinfreak said:
Not if you can make the exact same claim.

(Sure, she raped me too! I'm not going to charge her though, I half enjoyed her coming on to me)
You can't make the same claim in a court of law. Of course, the likelihood of making that claim after going to jail are VERY VERY high.
 

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Tyson didn't, it's a long story.
 

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LOL nooooo. In all court cases both parties generally exclaim their interest in extending a whatchamacallit, a pre court settlement. There are cases that police must always review prior to a case being brought before any court of the state.

At least that's how all of my cases were thrown out.... Maybe I'm just lucky and attourney's at law are numbnuts and crown lawyers are the true sneaky bastards.
 
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