Hooking up with a Playboy model with violent BF - good or bad - opinions?

[harrison9876]

Well...

I complete CONTRADICTION to my AFC post from today...

8 months ago, a girl (40's) stopped by my place at 3:00am. She had 4 dogs with her...and is dressed in only a long T-shirt.

Her boyfriend supposedly pulled a knife on her, and threatened her.

She mistook my door for someone else's.

I let her in...we chatted for an hour or so.

When she left, she wanted my number (in-case she needed to call me that night)...so I gave it to her. She called me up the next day to see if I wanted to hang out.

With my really sh*itty read on women...I really did not know what she wanted...so I passed.

I dunno...something about the violent BF bothered me, I guess.

We connected over Facebook a couple months later.

A few days ago, we had an interesting FB convo.

I was feeling ****ty about the girl I mentioned in my other post from today...so I started chatting with her about that...

As the convo progressed...she revealed that the night she came over, she was really into me...which I had no clue. Told me she thought I was mega hot - great body, eyes, smile, etc...and she wanted to do something that night, but thought it would have been difficult with the dogs being there.

I joked around about the fact that she has a BF...and she replied, "I'm not married"...she then further to tell me that he is 24, and she feels she needs an older guy...a lover.

The convo got fairly sexual, with her and I realizing our sexual wants/needs/turn-ons are the same.
She is very sexually aggressive....and there is a very open invitation to hook-up. She would be AMAZINGLY FUN...but I hesitate for a couple of reasons:

1) the violent BF
2) my current lack of self-confidence due to my recent fvck up with a girl I really liked

Also feeling like I am in a sh*tty, low, crappy, hard on myself, feeling like garbage mood...

Thoughts on who would pull the trigger in this situation?

 

[Solomon]

and than you woke up? I'm sorry but am I missing something here? if this allegedly true why would you even entertain this?

 

[sazc]

she showed you red flags and that she IS drama. if you invite her in, you get to play with all her drama too AND she knows where you live.
I woudlnt

 

[harrison9876]

Haha...

Yes its true.

Probably because these are the only types of women I attract.

I dunno...Maybe I am the one with the issues....

I actually moved since she showed up at my door a few months ago...So no worries there.

 

[SadoMasochrist]

Make sure you get her pregnant and while you're at it, see if you can get her a job where you work.

All joking aside, how many chromosomes do you have?

You do realize she's probably the violent one right? You just passed the captain save a ho test and she put you far down the list. But the other CSAH's passed.

 

[harrison9876]

CSAH - hahaha! have not heard that one before...

 

[harrison9876]

I knew she lived down the street from me. Ran into her a few times here and there...nothing crazy.

She is friends with my neighbor...rather than knocking on her door at 3 am...she knocked on mine, thinking it was her friend's place.

It was not premeditated.

I invited her in, as she seemed scared as shyt.

 

[SadoMasochrist]

I invited her in, as she seemed scared as shyt.

Of course Captain Save A Ho

 

[harrison9876]

Hahaha....