"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hooking up with a girl I previously rejected?

Freigeist

Don Juan
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Hey, right now I'm into this HB 8.5 who approached me last year in gym class. Well last year I was really immature/shy and stuff and had very low self esteem, so I didn't no what to do, she tried to get close & physical with me, but I being a retard who didn't know ****, didn't have the guts to talk to her ever since the class. She asked me like 2 weeks after the class when she saw me in the hallway if I'm gay or not, I said no, and she was like "Are you sure", I said "yeah" and I left.

Now I finally matured a bit mentally, and now I want her again. My guy friend was with her group for a school project, and I talked to the group and helped them a bit. I didn't talk to her directly (because of where I sat, and also I didn't wanna talk to her in front of the whole group) but she seemed to have liked my humour, and tried to join in when I talked to the other people in the group. She kinda still looks at me when we pass by each other, and our lockers are close to each other. But I'm having trouble reading the signs because sometimes she just ignores me or just doesn't seem to be affected by my presence.

Please give me advice how to tackle this problem, thx!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LikRetsam

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Better to analyze what has actually happened than what may happen. Go talk to her.
 
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