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So there is this girl in my class, that i never really noticed until she sat by me. We talked a couple times, but actually havent introduced ourselves to eachother (i dont know her name).

I was going to try and get the number after class, but she always leaves rather quick. Id get it during class, but my professor is a complete b*tch. If you even look like you are tlaking to someone she yells at you :rolleyes:

what should I do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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do what I did in this EXACT same situation. Leave a couple of minutes early, and just chat with a few mates outside the lecture. When you see her leave, catch up with her and charm the pants off her. Worked for me! Although, you would do better to find out her name from someone before hand. Be industrious, man! Surely someone you know at least knows her NAME!
 
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I want to hook up with this one Cuban chick in my math class. shes so damn cute!

But I just saw her with her big/fat/tall asian boyfriend.

I asked her if that was her boyfirend and she said not yet, but he will be soon, and then she smiled.

WTF is that supposed to mean? lmao

Anyways, I'll still talk to her and stuff. All girls are fair game to me as long as their not married.

I always seem to lose out to an asian guy, wtf is up with that?

Last girl I wanted also had an asian bf.
 
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Originally posted by lebRambo
do what I did in this EXACT same situation. Leave a couple of minutes early, and just chat with a few mates outside the lecture. When you see her leave, catch up with her and charm the pants off her. Worked for me! Although, you would do better to find out her name from someone before hand. Be industrious, man! Surely someone you know at least knows her NAME!
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Well, its impossible to leave early. The teacher said if you get up while she is teaching, she will kick you out of her class :rolleyes:

And I do kind of know her name, only because the teacher called it out once. But no one I know knows her.
 
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I'm sriously going through the same thing...she would stare at me....i've got a small crush but we totally go different ways after class...i've said like one thing to her i even remember it it's terrible....I've got a solution though...I don't want to even try till we are near the end I would want to get to know her then ask her out....I wouldn't want to see my girlfriend or girl who turned me down in my class every other day so i plan on going after her near thte end of the semester...(if i'm even interested in her by then o well) I'm focusing on me anyway
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't wait too long, don't confuse patience with procrastination.
 
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the thing is the class is only 2 days a week :(

I was gona ask her yesterday, but my friend sat in her spot so she had to sit somewhere else :down:
 
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Originally posted by AA423
the thing is the class is only 2 days a week :(

I was gona ask her yesterday, but my friend sat in her spot so she had to sit somewhere else :down:
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stop making excuses.

chat her up, set good rapport, and # close. If she's interested she'll give in. If not, then move on.

But from the sounds of it she doesnt appear interested. probably considers you a lcassmate only
 
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