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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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So there is this girl in my class, that i never really noticed until she sat by me. We talked a couple times, but actually havent introduced ourselves to eachother (i dont know her name).

I was going to try and get the number after class, but she always leaves rather quick. Id get it during class, but my professor is a complete b*tch. If you even look like you are tlaking to someone she yells at you :rolleyes:

what should I do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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do what I did in this EXACT same situation. Leave a couple of minutes early, and just chat with a few mates outside the lecture. When you see her leave, catch up with her and charm the pants off her. Worked for me! Although, you would do better to find out her name from someone before hand. Be industrious, man! Surely someone you know at least knows her NAME!
 
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I want to hook up with this one Cuban chick in my math class. shes so damn cute!

But I just saw her with her big/fat/tall asian boyfriend.

I asked her if that was her boyfirend and she said not yet, but he will be soon, and then she smiled.

WTF is that supposed to mean? lmao

Anyways, I'll still talk to her and stuff. All girls are fair game to me as long as their not married.

I always seem to lose out to an asian guy, wtf is up with that?

Last girl I wanted also had an asian bf.
 
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Originally posted by lebRambo
do what I did in this EXACT same situation. Leave a couple of minutes early, and just chat with a few mates outside the lecture. When you see her leave, catch up with her and charm the pants off her. Worked for me! Although, you would do better to find out her name from someone before hand. Be industrious, man! Surely someone you know at least knows her NAME!
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Well, its impossible to leave early. The teacher said if you get up while she is teaching, she will kick you out of her class :rolleyes:

And I do kind of know her name, only because the teacher called it out once. But no one I know knows her.
 
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I'm sriously going through the same thing...she would stare at me....i've got a small crush but we totally go different ways after class...i've said like one thing to her i even remember it it's terrible....I've got a solution though...I don't want to even try till we are near the end I would want to get to know her then ask her out....I wouldn't want to see my girlfriend or girl who turned me down in my class every other day so i plan on going after her near thte end of the semester...(if i'm even interested in her by then o well) I'm focusing on me anyway
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't wait too long, don't confuse patience with procrastination.
 
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the thing is the class is only 2 days a week :(

I was gona ask her yesterday, but my friend sat in her spot so she had to sit somewhere else :down:
 
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Originally posted by AA423
the thing is the class is only 2 days a week :(

I was gona ask her yesterday, but my friend sat in her spot so she had to sit somewhere else :down:
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stop making excuses.

chat her up, set good rapport, and # close. If she's interested she'll give in. If not, then move on.

But from the sounds of it she doesnt appear interested. probably considers you a lcassmate only
 
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