"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hookin up with FB...who's also your bestfriend/ex-gf

Sadhbh

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Nothing wrong with friends with benefits, **** buddies, etc. :D

But I was just wondering how you would handle it if the girl you're doing this with happened to be your best friend/ex-gf. So we dated a couple years back for a bit I guess. I would say I was a different person back then. I ended up cheating on her; she knows but that wasn't why we broke up. She knows me better than most, and we can talk about nearly everything under the sun--except other girls. I've been with a couple since we broke up dating one or two of them. I've got another FB right now who knows about her and she knows too. Didn't take it too well. How would u guys handle this??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Phyzzle

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How would we handle what? How would we handle having sex?

We would keep doing it . . . . ?
 

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But I was just wondering how you would handle it if the girl you're doing this with happened to be your best friend/ex-gf.
I would care about the past...why?

You might get some feelings back, I still love my ex alot, and she cheated on me (no, not real love, I just still care about her more then most, and I'm taken again anyways). All in all...go with the flow.

Oh, and she's called a FBBF&exGF!
 
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