"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hookin up with FB...who's also your bestfriend/ex-gf

Sadhbh

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Nothing wrong with friends with benefits, **** buddies, etc. :D

But I was just wondering how you would handle it if the girl you're doing this with happened to be your best friend/ex-gf. So we dated a couple years back for a bit I guess. I would say I was a different person back then. I ended up cheating on her; she knows but that wasn't why we broke up. She knows me better than most, and we can talk about nearly everything under the sun--except other girls. I've been with a couple since we broke up dating one or two of them. I've got another FB right now who knows about her and she knows too. Didn't take it too well. How would u guys handle this??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Phyzzle

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How would we handle what? How would we handle having sex?

We would keep doing it . . . . ?
 

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But I was just wondering how you would handle it if the girl you're doing this with happened to be your best friend/ex-gf.
I would care about the past...why?

You might get some feelings back, I still love my ex alot, and she cheated on me (no, not real love, I just still care about her more then most, and I'm taken again anyways). All in all...go with the flow.

Oh, and she's called a FBBF&exGF!
 
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