"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hookin it up in produce

UpNCominDJ

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OK I've got a success story. I was at the grocery store a couple of days ago. I was really tired and zoned out walkin around looking for spray starch. Anyway, I see this girl that keeps lookin at me, and pretty much notice that she's been following me around the store. So, I try and test her out and go to the produce section to see if she'll follow, and she does. So I walk up to her, smile and introduce myself, and tell her that I noticed she had been trying to get my attention. This girl had to between a 7 and 8. So she smiles and we strike up a short convo. So at the end she offers her number to me, and tells me to call her the next day and maybe I coule "COME OVER." So I take it and say I will. And I did call her the next day cause I was highly interested in gettin laid. Anyway, when I call, I hear what sounds like a day care being run in the back ground, and it turns out to be her 4 kids all under the age of 5. She's 25. So that in and of it self was enough to keep my a$$ away from that baby factory. So the moral of this success story is don't mess around with chics that have a bunch of kids. They just keep on poppin those crumb snachers out.

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Women, can't live with them, can't have hetero sexual sex without them.



[This message has been edited by UpNCominDJ (edited 05-27-2002).]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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